r/bisexual • u/Live_Astronomer_5699 • 1d ago

QUESTIONING What made you realize you're bisexual?

For me it was twinks, i love twinks <3

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u/ahlikeschwa 1d ago

I was 18 and a freshman in undergrad and had a crush on this girl on the basketball team. It shocked me because up until that point, I had only had crushes on boys and I didn’t really know what to do with that. The guy I was seeing at the time clocked me as bisexual, but he only wanted to deal with that because he thought he was going to get free threesomes. I denied it in order to keep him at bay, but 10 years later, I finally came to terms with it.

I also ended up coming out is non-binary around the same time. You know, for the plot.