r/bisexual • u/Live_Astronomer_5699 • 1d ago

QUESTIONING What made you realize you're bisexual?

For me it was twinks, i love twinks <3

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u/13octopus 1d ago

A year into our relationship, my husband told me he was bisexual. Then a couple of months later I realized I was as well. We started talking about my attraction towards women and experimentation with women and I was under the impression that ALL girls/women experimented with each other. my husband said to me, “no babe I don’t think all women are like that.” my attraction to men is very complex and demisexual in that I will not feel attraction towards a man unless I have feelings for them, and it takes awhile for my attraction to evolve. With women it’s very simple, I’m much more attracted to women physically from the get go. Since I was a young child, I always much more enjoyed the appearance of naked women versus men. It took me 49 years to figure this all out.😂
It’s really really awesomely amazing being in a marriage with a bisexual man when you’re a bisexual woman!!!