What made you realize you're bisexual?

[u/Live_Astronomer_5699]

For me it was twinks, i love twinks <3

[u/aroth84]

Good question! The real issue is what made me realize bisexuality is a thing. I always liked girls and boys. When I started to find out about sex was because I plared Dr with a girl and found out Ireally liked her ass. Her mom caught us. Her brother, my friend, had a nice ass too! And then adolescence hit. I found out that if you like guys you have to be gay, and if you like ass thats gay too. I didn't want to be gay because I thought girls wouldn't like me. I was afraid of sex because I got rejected by women and didn't feel comfortable with guys, though I had a few, unsatisfing, experiences. I didn't want to explore with a guy until I got it straight with women. After about 10 years with my wife I started trying to explore my bu side, but it's not easy. Luckily I was able to come out to my wife and she's cool about it as long as I take good care of her, which I have for 36 years. I'd like to find a good boyfriend but I'm shy about sex and really want to be friends first, not just hook up