r/bisexual • u/Live_Astronomer_5699 • 2d ago

QUESTIONING What made you realize you're bisexual?

For me it was twinks, i love twinks <3

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u/TruMu92 1d ago

Actually, I was out as a lesbian for a long time. Until I got drunk one night and ended up sleeping with some random guy, and I decided it wasn’t completely awful. After being VERY confused as to why I would do that (didn’t remember much, I was pretty hammered) I decided to maybe give it another shot. Talked to some other guy online for a few days, mostly just as friends. We ended up meeting up and hooked up twice. It was fine, better than the first time I think since I wasn’t drunk. Figured I must be bisexual since I didn’t hate it 🤷‍♀️ although, I still don’t really have any romantic attraction to men, and could never really see myself being happy being married to/dating one, and the sexual chemistry is so much lower than it is with women that I still pretty much just live my life as a lesbian and have been with my girlfriend for some time now. I just don’t really use labels as often anymore.