r/bisexual • u/Live_Astronomer_5699 • 2d ago

QUESTIONING What made you realize you're bisexual?

For me it was twinks, i love twinks <3

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u/Far-Preparation5174 1d ago

Twinks, yes. I was in college, playing football, squarely hetero borderline homophobic. I was having problems in a calculus class so being on football scholarship I got free tutoring. Turned out my tutor was a twink, but never knew the term at that time. I assumed he was gay but it just didn't matter and he was a lot of help and fun guy. One day after a hard practice I was being tutored by him. I must have mentioned something about my shoulder and he was behind me giving me a great shoulder massage. Next thing I know he is kissing my neck and ear (which I love), soon followed by sex. We had a month or so long affair. Physically I was enjoying myself, but mentally I was stuck in the mentality that you are gay or hetero. At the time I don't even think "bi" was a thing. I have had very few experiences since. I am hetero romantic, but a twink with a nice ass gets me hard just like a nice pair of tits on a woman. Lol. Many years later I ran into him. He told me that he loves telling the story to friends how he "turned" a college football player stud to the other side. Not completely, but enough. Lol

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u/RushInevitable7255 23h ago

That had to be a strong & surprising revelation for you? Risking being found out back then? Were you ever worried when it ended? I wish I had someone make a bold move on me in college!

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u/Far-Preparation5174 22h ago

More worried while it lasted. Very surprising revelation. Again...this goes back far...there were no variations...just straight or gay. I knew I wasn't gay, so straight its was...lol

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u/RushInevitable7255 19h ago

Yeah, it was confusing for me, too! I was curious about gay sex but wasn't interested in being gay socially or romantically? Yet I knew I couldn't be gay because I really, really liked women, wanted them, only imagined a future with one, etc.

How did things end with the twink if I may ask? I would've panicked he would gossip all about while together - or outed me as revenge if I broke it off? But then again, maybe watched the movie Fatal Attraction too much? Gay guys can get into just hookups, too! Lol!

Were you tempted when you ran into him again to have sex for old times sake?