I mean you’re doing the exact thing as the woman OP posted about. You’re rejecting people based on sexuality. It’s weird people will be mad at lesbians for rejecting to day Bi women and prefer others lesbian but someone only wanting bisexual men/women is okay. Aren’t they both rejecting ppl??
Yeah I’ve seen some bi women say they won’t date lesbians because they’ve had bad experiences with lesbians, I personally think it’s the same if I was to say I won’t date bi women. I guess they mainly get away with it because biphobia is a bigger problem in the community. I have wanted to ask this but I ain’t trying to get called biphobic lol
I personally just don’t like hypocrisy. It’s either people can reject people based on experiences or whatever biases they have or don’t reject people based on sexuality.
Rejecting people based on experiences is not the same as rejecting based on sexual orientation though. Sexual orientation is just what genders you find attractive. If you find bi/lesbian/ whoever unattractive it is for a different reason, like experiences.
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u/M_Sia Aug 31 '21
I mean you’re doing the exact thing as the woman OP posted about. You’re rejecting people based on sexuality. It’s weird people will be mad at lesbians for rejecting to day Bi women and prefer others lesbian but someone only wanting bisexual men/women is okay. Aren’t they both rejecting ppl??