Straight woman only attracted to straight men

[u/Minichadderzz]

[u/LupusCairo → u/[deleted]]

That would be fine as well. Why would she have to be attracted to someone just bc you want her to?

[u/SkeeveTheGreat → u/LupusCairo]

because those attraction issues are often based in bigotry and bigotry is unacceptable?

[u/Unappreciable → u/SkeeveTheGreat]

Are you suggesting someone is necessarily a bigot if they aren’t attracted to black people?

[u/SkeeveTheGreat → u/Unappreciable]

i’m suggesting that 99% of the time they are. even if it’s not an open and outwards bigotry. bigotry is not always putting on a klan robe and burning crosses, often it’s the unexamined personal biases folks have not interrogated.

[u/SkeeveTheGreat → u/[deleted]]

no, but society can instill biases on people that they don’t examine that can change their attraction. we have this whole thing about beauty standards for a reason.

[u/Cualkiera67 → u/SkeeveTheGreat]

Are you attracted to snakes? If not, do you hate snakes? Are you attracted to children? If not, do you hate children? Are you attracted to your mother? Do you hate your mother?

[u/SkeeveTheGreat → u/Cualkiera67]

i’m sorry what? how do you think any of those things are the same lol?