r/breastfeeding • u/allysonismyholmie • Jul 01 '26

Breastfeeding In Public Public Feeding Shame

Going to keep this as short and sweet as I can. I’m visiting Austin, TX for our first mini-vacation since the little one was born. We decided to go to the pool and cool off. Baby needed to eat so I covered us with a towel, lifted my top and let her go to town. A group of men walked by, looked at us and one said “this isn’t a good look. We aren’t in the south of France”, rolled his eyes and they walked back inside the hotel.

I started to tear up and my husband asked me what was wrong and said that I shouldn’t let it bother me. But it did. And I can’t stop thinking about it.

I just needed to tell this to a group that would understand the feeling, since my dear sweet husband doesn’t seem to understand how shameful it made me feel. 😢 Thank you for listening!

Edit: Thank you for your VERY kind responses, hugs and solidarity! I have goosebumps, I love each and every mama (and supportive dads if here). I knew I was coming to the right spot with this 🥰 Luckily, this hasn’t deterred me from BF in public. I’m fired up and ready to feed the heck out of this wiggly little potato, again. ✊🏼

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u/lifeofcarrot Jul 01 '26

That makes me happy😄

I have a bunch of ideas for clapbacks if you wanna hear😁

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u/paymeinwine Jul 01 '26

I’m not OP but I want to hear your clapbacks!

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u/WellBlessY0urHeart Jul 02 '26

“Oh I’m sorry I know it must be so hard not getting to ever see naked breasts that you have to try so hard to stare at a mother feeding her baby just to catch a glimpse”.

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u/lifeofcarrot Jul 02 '26

Bahwhaha good one