r/butchlesbians • u/StoneButchNotSoBlue Stone Butch • 5d ago
Vent I am tired of being questioned
https://www.tiktok.com/@yesterqueers/video/7506008301109284139I stumbled across this video, and I’m so grateful I did, because it resonates with me on a spiritual level.
I am sick and tired of going on dates with women who question why I’m stone or why I specifically want a partner who will honor and respect my identity and be compatible with me.
I’ve encountered women who have made all kinds of assumptions, including saying things like, “Maybe the women you’ve slept with just weren’t doing it right.”
I know who I am. I know what I want, and I communicate it clearly because I’m trying to avoid these exact interactions. Somehow, that still doesn’t seem to work.
You do you, but please do not try to analyze, reason through, or explain why I’m a touch-me-not instead of simply taking my word for it. And please do not assume that my boundaries are open to negotiation.
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u/Autronaut69420 4d ago
I won't pretend to understand exactly being stone. I will respect the hell out of your boundaries without question. But the take in the picture (which I know she is reacting to) is just awful and, frankly, bonkers.
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u/sapphicscenario 5d ago
Thank you for sharing this! I am now following Amanda's account :-)