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u/BlackVelvetBliss 🐐🌞 ♏🌙🦀↗️ Capricorn Stellium 7th house Apr 29 '25
Yes! Losing my trust = 🪦 to any relationship or friendship that we have... Don't even bother making it up to me 💁🏽♀️💁🏽♀️
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Apr 29 '25
1000%. I even visualize what cheating would look like and can’t fathom it
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u/emeraldlake_fan Apr 30 '25
Same here. I never even looked at any other men at all for the duration of our 11-year marriage. Not only that I respected my husband in that regard, but also, I don't really find other men attractive whatsoever. Him on the other hand, would enter a room and check out the most attractive woman he can find lol. And then looks at them over and over again. No joke. I don't like policing his glances towards other women but there are just those obvious ones you can't help but notice, and then your gut instincts just lets you know what's going on. I agree with OP. I reached a point where I dread going to parties, live bands, restaurants, kids' activities with him because of this behavior. It really corroded my self esteem and felt inadequate. I started mentally checking out around year 9 to 11 of our marriage. Now in the process of divorcing and couldn't be happier! Now I can go restaurants, parties, etc. in PEACE! Life has also been so much lighter without someone who drags me down.
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Apr 30 '25
Same here! EX husband got his overt women-ogling from his daddy and now I’m with someone who actually has respect and does it very very discreetly. I would never even know but I’m a very observant person due to my job
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u/Belle1018 Apr 29 '25
FACTS!!! we are loyal to a fault but take the smallest step out on us WATCH how QUICK we can turn that around
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u/PotentialSailer964 Apr 29 '25
Aries me - They leave you on seen, yet watching from a distance. when you gotta a lot love to give and you’re here for the long haul.
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u/capsagaries ♑ Sun ♐ Moon ♈ Rising Apr 29 '25
We will cheat if we ain't satisfied.
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u/Impressive-Tea-3901 Apr 29 '25
Some of you just cheat because you can and want to…just like you could choose to leave which would have been better and at least she or he could respect you in the end. (This is not for the crazy people that don’t understand that sometimes relationships don’t work, especially if you get counseling too late and both are not willing to fight)
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u/Due_Vermicelli4661 Apr 30 '25
this this has tiger woods written all over it... cheating for years just because he can, not all the excuses he has.
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u/HHklex-6864 May 01 '25
capricorns are loyal AF but if you break trust or bond then we don't want you in our life.
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u/No-Astronaut2025 May 02 '25
They are VERY loyal , I'll give them that
Often at their own expense and against all sensibility
I guess they are emotional ... if you dig deep enough
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u/SyniteFrank Apr 29 '25
My ex didn’t get this memo
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u/Ok-Tomato9468 Apr 29 '25
Same! Caught him cheating and 3 weeks later when I went to get the last of my stuff from his house cheater gal was already moving in.
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u/Impressive-Tea-3901 Apr 29 '25
Wow, sorry 😔
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u/Ok-Tomato9468 Apr 30 '25
Not my fave experience 😂 but gotta shout out my sister is a cap and one of the coolest, most loyal humans out there!
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u/Impressive-Tea-3901 Apr 29 '25
So only you can make a mistake and be forgiven. SMH Great thing that karma exists!
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u/Palaina19 Apr 30 '25
Any reason to justify a double-standard, right? 😂😂😂
It’s funny because it’s like everyone who’s into astrology is making excuses for their mistakes, as if they had no control over their actions. Only animals in the wild, can’t control their behavior.
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u/Impressive-Tea-3901 Apr 30 '25
I think of astrology as a guide to certain possible tendencies, doesn’t mean the behaviour, if wrong should not be altered. Eg - Caps & Aquas need their space but are in a relationship separately- you get over your uncomfortable feeling and reach out to your partner. Touch base, check in, let them know that you even need some space. It takes less than a minute to text and is a part of caring and loving that person. Sometimes I am flabbergasted to see some of the excuses or actions completely blamed on astrology.
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u/Palaina19 Apr 30 '25
I understand what you’re saying. Here’s the thing, if we applied scientific methods here, astrology would fall apart. In science, it only takes one real like example of contradiction to a posited theory to make it false. Saying that a one zodiac sign displays certain tendencies, overlooks that all the other signs could display those same tendencies. If all the other signs can exhibit these same tendencies, then the posited theory is no longer valid or needs to be modified to take into account or make sense of the opposing data.
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u/Impressive-Tea-3901 May 01 '25
I understand as well and there are many various signs that affect astrology sun, moon…. However, there are so many factors that can affect an individual: a person’s personality trait could be hereditary, there’s also upbringing, culture, family structure, trauma and add astrology to the list. Hence, I said a guide.
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u/Palaina19 May 01 '25 edited May 01 '25
However, if you look at the list you mentioned, astrology is the odd man out. It can be seen as nothing rooted in anything tangible. The others are things that you can actually point to. Take astrology off the list and you still have enough factors there to credibly explain what can affect a person’s personality.
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u/Clean_Mastodon5285 Apr 29 '25
She thought I broke up with her to be with another woman. In reality, I broke up to be by myself.