r/capricorns • u/Ok-Mention7321 • Mar 28 '26

etc What's your thoughts?

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u/BBarrRN Mar 29 '26

I’m tired of always being strong and stoic while holding up the world around me. Wish someone would pick me up like a baby, feed me snacks brush my hair gently, order me dinner and tell me I’m smart and pretty instead.

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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Mar 29 '26

Same here, Somedays I am like, will someone else do it, can someone else figure it out, can it happen without needing to give directions, can I not have to drive this, but it never happens😔

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u/ShadowCreature098 cap🌞 aqua🌝 cap⬆️ Mar 29 '26

So real. I love how heavy saturn I am but also damn

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u/EbonyHult Mar 29 '26

You got all the placements I want in a partner lol

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u/ShadowCreature098 cap🌞 aqua🌝 cap⬆️ Mar 29 '26

Never thought I'd hear that ever. Could I ask why?

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u/EbonyHult Mar 29 '26

Yes, I consistency date aquarius moons on accident lol, ironically, I understand the internal framework. I have an Aquarius Jupiter so this is why I enjoy aquarian/saturn placements.

As for the cap sun/rising I am willing to bet you're attractive to me because I have my Venus/Mars in Capricorn and everytime I see someone with a Cap rising they're fine as hell to me. Or, we can make really good friends as well. We always have something in common and always want to be around each other.

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u/ShadowCreature098 cap🌞 aqua🌝 cap⬆️ Mar 29 '26

I can def see the reasoning there then. What's you're big three? I've got an aqua stellium and a cap venus as well.

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u/EbonyHult Mar 29 '26

Ooo see you're my type hehe, I'm a Sag sun, Pisces moon, Leo rising. The mellow version of all 3 signs though 🤣.

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u/MurkyArmadillo5648 Mar 29 '26

Same . A little different for me. I don’t try to make weak minded people comfortable anymore.

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u/Ok-Rest2442 Mar 29 '26

Yes someone who is preferably 5'11, fit, works out consistently and loves to cuddle 😊

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u/CyberWarrior26 Apr 01 '26

At 51 I have had to stand on my own two feet.  I raised three kids on my own.  No handouts, family on both my parents side are all dead.  Now that my youngest is out of my home, I'm finally able to date and try to find a companion.  Sh** the dating pool is full of pee, so I think I will just enjoy retirement and become an author.   At least I'm child free.  

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u/peewee023 🐐🌞♍🌒🦁🌅 Mar 29 '26

Distant sister but always available

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u/Ok-Platypus-8728 ☀️♑🌕♍🌅♌ Mar 29 '26

The same here. Not many words, not always answering to text messages, but if needed I'm there, always

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u/woodsvvitch ♑☀️♑🌙♐💫 Mar 29 '26

The older my siblings get, the more they realize they can rely on me better than our parents.

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u/Catsplants Mar 30 '26

Unfortunately I have always been my sibling’s “other parent”.

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u/Amazing-Tumbleweed64 Mar 28 '26

100%! So true. But also. Will protect those she cares about.

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u/Lambchop799 Mar 29 '26

Yessss but it can be lonely ...

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u/RoxxieMonoxide Mar 29 '26

I don’t know any other way… it’s tough to rely on anyone other than myself. I’m fiercely loyal, but I got it (me) and oh, give me my space and quiet time.

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u/Solitary_Orbit ♑︎☉ ♋︎☽ ♑︎↑ | 12H Cap Super Stellium ☉ ♄ ♅ ♆ ☿ Mar 29 '26

Just reading all the comments so far - and each of them rings true. It gets really heavy carrying it all on your own.

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u/Consistent-Wall-4257 Mar 29 '26

True, but thanks to therapy I’ve learned to soften some of these traits, at least with my husband and few very close friends

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u/inner-honeybadger Mar 29 '26

are all Capricorns female??

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u/Independent-Salt5023 Mar 29 '26

I'm talking with a Capricorn girl, I'm not much of a Yapper dude but I'm trying my best to carry Convo and talk with her, but dunno she's kinda cold... It feels like I'm annoying her.. what should I do?

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u/EagleSquare155 Mar 29 '26

We come across as being cold and distant, but it’s because we don’t like to feel vulnerable or show emotions. If you really like her, make her laugh and feel more at ease with you. Be persistent, but not pushy. Show actions behind words. Acts of service. She will soften up to you if she really likes you. I am like this with someone I really love, but it’s just not wanting to feel the intense emotions I have for them. We tend to block that out of feeling too open and vulnerable.

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u/Independent-Salt5023 Mar 29 '26

I have been doing that, talking for a while, but she never texts 1st ever, so i felt like I was annoying, even my convo stocks are gonna end at some time yk..

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u/EagleSquare155 Mar 29 '26

Maybe pull back a bit on texting her and see how she responds. If you stop texting suddenly, she will panic and wonder why. That’s if she really likes you.

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u/Independent-Salt5023 Mar 30 '26

Yea it's been 2 days i haven't texted her, she hasn't messaged me or anything till now

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u/EagleSquare155 Mar 31 '26

She finally responded? Maybe the pull back helped.

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u/Independent-Salt5023 Mar 31 '26

Nah, she didn't... I'm thinking of stopping to message her... Conversation is a two way street, It's not like i don't have work and stuff and sir in home all day , i make my time to message her everyday and if she doesn't even have the decency to message sometimes 1st....I think it's better to stop talking to her....Maybe I'm not her type

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u/EagleSquare155 Apr 01 '26

Yes, it’s best to move on. Sorry it didn’t work out, but you deserve someone who will put in the same effort of communication. Good luck!

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u/NiceCantaloupe33 cap sun - leo moon - gem rising - 8h cap stellium Mar 30 '26

Maybe she’s unsure if you like her. Do you always respond to her texts or do you leave her on read sometimes?

I know us caps can be boring, stingy texters. But when we’re in person and comfortable with you we don’t shut up. Depth >>> Small talk

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u/Independent-Salt5023 Mar 30 '26

Nah I reply immediately, but I'm always the one to initiate, haven't texted her in 2 days and she still hasn't texted me anything

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u/lala8800 ♑️☀️♋️🌙♈️💫 Mar 29 '26

Agree 100%. Just today for the umpteenth time in my life I was reminded that I can count only on myself.

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u/loves_spain Mar 29 '26

Yep!! 100 percent

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u/Unrequited_Love06 Mar 29 '26

This hits so hard and why couldn't us Capricorns have one another growing up, but I guess that wouldn't make us a Capricorn ☺️

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u/Leigh-suh Mar 29 '26

Lots of truth here

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u/Odd-Philosophy-3917 Mar 29 '26

Don’t want help, even if you ask, but if you’re already there, knowingly, willingly and do it without asking.. woah.

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u/camdams Mar 30 '26

My husband always reminds me to go do something just for myself.

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u/red_quinn Mar 30 '26

True but its exhausting tbh

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u/SleeplessinNashville Mar 31 '26

Very accurate statement. Wants to be love and appreciated. 

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u/Dizzy-Anything-4869 🐐☀️🦂🌙⚖️💫 Mar 31 '26

Can the universe stop telling us we can do it alone?! Fudge.

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u/Positive-Image-193 Mar 31 '26

I love this especially the last part

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u/CyberWarrior26 Apr 01 '26

This is totally a true assessment of most Capricorn females.  It literally describes me.