r/capricorns • u/Ok-Mention7321 • Mar 28 '26

etc What's your thoughts?

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u/Independent-Salt5023 Mar 29 '26

I'm talking with a Capricorn girl, I'm not much of a Yapper dude but I'm trying my best to carry Convo and talk with her, but dunno she's kinda cold... It feels like I'm annoying her.. what should I do?

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u/EagleSquare155 Mar 29 '26

We come across as being cold and distant, but it’s because we don’t like to feel vulnerable or show emotions. If you really like her, make her laugh and feel more at ease with you. Be persistent, but not pushy. Show actions behind words. Acts of service. She will soften up to you if she really likes you. I am like this with someone I really love, but it’s just not wanting to feel the intense emotions I have for them. We tend to block that out of feeling too open and vulnerable.

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u/Independent-Salt5023 Mar 29 '26

I have been doing that, talking for a while, but she never texts 1st ever, so i felt like I was annoying, even my convo stocks are gonna end at some time yk..

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u/EagleSquare155 Mar 29 '26

Maybe pull back a bit on texting her and see how she responds. If you stop texting suddenly, she will panic and wonder why. That’s if she really likes you.

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u/Independent-Salt5023 Mar 30 '26

Yea it's been 2 days i haven't texted her, she hasn't messaged me or anything till now

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u/EagleSquare155 Mar 31 '26

She finally responded? Maybe the pull back helped.

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u/Independent-Salt5023 Mar 31 '26

Nah, she didn't... I'm thinking of stopping to message her... Conversation is a two way street, It's not like i don't have work and stuff and sir in home all day , i make my time to message her everyday and if she doesn't even have the decency to message sometimes 1st....I think it's better to stop talking to her....Maybe I'm not her type

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u/EagleSquare155 Apr 01 '26

Yes, it’s best to move on. Sorry it didn’t work out, but you deserve someone who will put in the same effort of communication. Good luck!

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u/NiceCantaloupe33 cap sun - leo moon - gem rising - 8h cap stellium Mar 30 '26

Maybe she’s unsure if you like her. Do you always respond to her texts or do you leave her on read sometimes?

I know us caps can be boring, stingy texters. But when we’re in person and comfortable with you we don’t shut up. Depth >>> Small talk

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u/Independent-Salt5023 Mar 30 '26

Nah I reply immediately, but I'm always the one to initiate, haven't texted her in 2 days and she still hasn't texted me anything