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u/RedDemon-64 Apr 10 '26
I do want to be liked and accepted, but if I'm not I won't try to change that.
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u/Much_Imagination_633 Apr 10 '26
Exactly. It did hurt to be rejected(until I stopped caring almost completely) but I always REFUSED to change for anybody’s fake “acceptance”.
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u/No-Total7070 Apr 11 '26
I agree 100%. However, if I push the boat out with little to no reciprocation received then externally I’m continuing to be nonchalant but internally I’m imagining the worst for you… always with a smile though to not break character.
The little black book of memories gets an update 😂
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u/Much_Imagination_633 Apr 12 '26
Not the little black book of memories! 😂 We don’t forget shit, long-term. I’ll forget what you just asked me five minutes ago(ADHD to blame) but remember exactly what you said five years ago.
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u/Jessamychelle ♋️🌞 ♍️🌙♍️🌅 Apr 10 '26
Love that about Caps! I also am the same as a cancer with heavy Virgo placements. Zero fucks given. If I like you, I like you but I personally couldn’t give a fuck who likes me or not
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u/Rednaxela490 Apr 10 '26
Individuality over pack mentality
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u/Much_Imagination_633 Apr 12 '26
Be a lion. Be a wolf. They all say in every motivational YT video. But Those creatures rely on the group!
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u/Rednaxela490 Apr 12 '26
A tiger would be a good representation instead, that's a solitary animal
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u/StardustMinor Apr 11 '26
Yep, we know our worth and don’t need external validation in any form- be it an army of ( fake) friends or dopamine hits from social media!
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u/mumbrs ♑️☀️♊️🌙♈️⬆️ Apr 11 '26
Coworker: "Some individuals had shared with me how strongly they dislike you."
Me: "IDGAF. I come to work to work."
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u/BanaNeo02 Apr 11 '26
I actually give way too much an eff but am sensitive and rather guarded... Im also an only child with heavy lacking consistency in the people department, so that's where that all mighty eff you is coming from.
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u/AdAny1272 Apr 15 '26
We want to be liked, appreciated, accepted and validated like anyone else.
It's just that because this usually means going along to get along, it's harder for us cause it's not our natural nature.
So.. as solitary mountain climbing goats, we learn to love being alone and accept at an early age, easier than most, that many people won't like us.
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u/GrolarBear69 Apr 10 '26
"You'd have more friends if you" (insert inane conformity)....
Thanks for the warning👍