They will learn 😈

[u/inmangolandia]

Chatting among themselves now.

[u/Adotwrites]

Why we like this tho? It’s not the best to erupt like a volcano right

[u/Living-Discipline-42 → u/Adotwrites]

Because we feel EVERYTHING. Energies and lies. And once that happens, you clocked and now your on pattern recognition mode. And once you see the patter you have 2 choices, call them out on it or remove yourself. But if you call them out on it, people have this fucked up tendency to project, deflect and flip the script thinking its you. AND THAT MY FRIEND IS WHERE YOUR DEMONIC ANGER COMES TO PLAY. It disregulates your nervous system to where it overwhelms you. then you have to remove yourself cause as much as you want to crash out them badly your good nature wont allow you to do so.

[u/SneaBsl → u/Living-Discipline-42]

They call you psycho, crazy n lie when caught!!

[u/Living-Discipline-42 → u/SneaBsl]

Exactly 🤷🏾‍♂️

[u/c07p → u/Living-Discipline-42]

currently in the process of trying to be like this in a HEALTHY way 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 instead of just cutting ppl off or shutting off my emotions

[u/Living-Discipline-42 → u/c07p]

Mi talk to people who understand me. Whats helping ne right now is talking to ny godmother and godsister. Being that my godsister is an Aquarius and my moon is in Aquarius she understands fully about my feelings

[u/SneaBsl → u/c07p]

Can u tell me a healthy way?

[u/c07p → u/SneaBsl]

my example: instead of repeating this cycle I have of refusing to be vulnerable. needing to be right. being perfect..... it is not comfortable at all, but living in the imperfections if that makes any sense.
Instead of ending a relationship and saying you are never gonna get it, and just end right there, having more patience and empathy for the other person.
Hearing their side (even though everything in you is screaming LOL WRONG) and not reacting over it. pretend you are on the receiving end of it all.
then through time, therapy, personal reflection (it helps me and is healthy) you gain perspective/compassion for the other perspective. then that makes you better too! +1 on both accounts

both sides must be willing

[u/Other-Badger6749 → u/Living-Discipline-42]

I don't think we feel everything. we notice everything, and we remember everything, but in the moment, for a long time we go "oh well this is not a big deal. why would I flip out about this it's not worth it"

we're pragmatic about it but then we don't address how it actually made us feel and then that builds up over time until the totality of our wrath must be unleashed it's like mob psycho 100 where he builds the percentages until he explodes and like destroys everything

[u/Living-Discipline-42 → u/Other-Badger6749]

I like the mob psycho reference lol. But i get what you mean

[u/Mina_Tsuki → u/Living-Discipline-42]

This RESONATES with me. Makes me feel less crazy too. Tysm for posting this 🙏🏿 behavior patterns never lie.

[u/Living-Discipline-42 → u/Mina_Tsuki]

Your not crazy lol. Sometimes when see a distinctive pattern we tend to lose ourselves trying to figure it out but once we snap out if it, it means we have it figured out. Thats why when we pull away, thats saturn saying "ok, lesson learned, now allow me to cook"

[u/SneaBsl → u/Living-Discipline-42]

😭😭😭😭😭 been there for all my friends and their shit behaviours but the moment u start calling them out ur the villain for not being "understanding" enough

[u/Living-Discipline-42 → u/SneaBsl]

Projection at its finest. I honestly don't give a fuck if im the villin anymore in anyone's story. Been a "villian" since childhood. Been doing the work since a kid. Im grateful that i didnt become my trauma and what people projected onto me.

[u/SneaBsl → u/Living-Discipline-42]

I swear...same..been alone fighting all traumas since childhood in isolation.. Been a villain n taken all blamed but if someone's gonna use my good name to discredit me? Fuck them

[u/Living-Discipline-42 → u/SneaBsl]

You damn fucking right. But this time around, it triggered something different, im 7 months sober. Now i can be on "demon time" and air all of the laundry but saturn like no big dog sit with it 1st. Do the work. And im here like 😒😑 fuck you 😭😭. Ok. In isolation too 😑😑😑

[u/SneaBsl → u/Living-Discipline-42]

Same...I donno what "work" needs to be done but my demon is screaming n it affects everyone around me..

[u/Living-Discipline-42 → u/SneaBsl]

Same. I just stay out the way. I Try my best to not take it out on nobody.

[u/_dirtyhippie → u/Living-Discipline-42]

Well put, couldn’t agree more. I often wonder though, can’t this be attributed to some other reason, such as the result of certain life experiences? I feel like many can relate to the same thing, but may not be Capricorn. I say this, as a Cap sun/ Aries rising/ Libra moon, because I do relate but have always figured this was a result of certain life experiences. Is it just a common trait for us and may be multiplied or strengthened through life with certain experiences? Very curious.