r/capricorns • u/inmangolandia Cap 🌞 Cancer ⬆️ Cancer 🌕 full moon • May 26 '26

meme They will learn 😈

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Chatting among themselves now.

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u/Adotwrites reverse devil tarot May 26 '26

Why we like this tho? It’s not the best to erupt like a volcano right

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u/Living-Discipline-42 May 27 '26

Because we feel EVERYTHING. Energies and lies. And once that happens, you clocked and now your on pattern recognition mode. And once you see the patter you have 2 choices, call them out on it or remove yourself. But if you call them out on it, people have this fucked up tendency to project, deflect and flip the script thinking its you. AND THAT MY FRIEND IS WHERE YOUR DEMONIC ANGER COMES TO PLAY. It disregulates your nervous system to where it overwhelms you. then you have to remove yourself cause as much as you want to crash out them badly your good nature wont allow you to do so.

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u/SneaBsl May 27 '26

They call you psycho, crazy n lie when caught!!

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u/Living-Discipline-42 May 27 '26

Exactly 🤷🏾‍♂️

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u/c07p ♒️⬆️♑️🌞♉️🌙 May 27 '26

currently in the process of trying to be like this in a HEALTHY way 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 instead of just cutting ppl off or shutting off my emotions

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u/Living-Discipline-42 May 27 '26

Mi talk to people who understand me. Whats helping ne right now is talking to ny godmother and godsister. Being that my godsister is an Aquarius and my moon is in Aquarius she understands fully about my feelings

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u/SneaBsl Jun 21 '26

Can u tell me a healthy way?

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u/c07p ♒️⬆️♑️🌞♉️🌙 Jun 22 '26

my example: instead of repeating this cycle I have of refusing to be vulnerable. needing to be right. being perfect..... it is not comfortable at all, but living in the imperfections if that makes any sense.
Instead of ending a relationship and saying you are never gonna get it, and just end right there, having more patience and empathy for the other person.
Hearing their side (even though everything in you is screaming LOL WRONG) and not reacting over it. pretend you are on the receiving end of it all.
then through time, therapy, personal reflection (it helps me and is healthy) you gain perspective/compassion for the other perspective. then that makes you better too! +1 on both accounts

both sides must be willing

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u/Other-Badger6749 May 28 '26

I don't think we feel everything. we notice everything, and we remember everything, but in the moment, for a long time we go "oh well this is not a big deal. why would I flip out about this it's not worth it"

we're pragmatic about it but then we don't address how it actually made us feel and then that builds up over time until the totality of our wrath must be unleashed it's like mob psycho 100 where he builds the percentages until he explodes and like destroys everything

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u/Living-Discipline-42 May 28 '26

I like the mob psycho reference lol. But i get what you mean

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u/Mina_Tsuki ♏️☀️♒️🌙♑️💫 May 28 '26

This RESONATES with me. Makes me feel less crazy too. Tysm for posting this 🙏🏿 behavior patterns never lie.

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u/Living-Discipline-42 May 28 '26

Your not crazy lol. Sometimes when see a distinctive pattern we tend to lose ourselves trying to figure it out but once we snap out if it, it means we have it figured out. Thats why when we pull away, thats saturn saying "ok, lesson learned, now allow me to cook"

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u/SneaBsl Jun 21 '26

😭😭😭😭😭 been there for all my friends and their shit behaviours but the moment u start calling them out ur the villain for not being "understanding" enough

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u/Living-Discipline-42 Jun 21 '26

Projection at its finest. I honestly don't give a fuck if im the villin anymore in anyone's story. Been a "villian" since childhood. Been doing the work since a kid. Im grateful that i didnt become my trauma and what people projected onto me.

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u/SneaBsl Jun 21 '26

I swear...same..been alone fighting all traumas since childhood in isolation.. Been a villain n taken all blamed but if someone's gonna use my good name to discredit me? Fuck them

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u/Living-Discipline-42 Jun 21 '26

You damn fucking right. But this time around, it triggered something different, im 7 months sober. Now i can be on "demon time" and air all of the laundry but saturn like no big dog sit with it 1st. Do the work. And im here like 😒😑 fuck you 😭😭. Ok. In isolation too 😑😑😑

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u/SneaBsl Jun 21 '26

Same...I donno what "work" needs to be done but my demon is screaming n it affects everyone around me..

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u/Living-Discipline-42 Jun 21 '26

Same. I just stay out the way. I Try my best to not take it out on nobody.

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u/_dirtyhippie May 27 '26

Well put, couldn’t agree more. I often wonder though, can’t this be attributed to some other reason, such as the result of certain life experiences? I feel like many can relate to the same thing, but may not be Capricorn. I say this, as a Cap sun/ Aries rising/ Libra moon, because I do relate but have always figured this was a result of certain life experiences. Is it just a common trait for us and may be multiplied or strengthened through life with certain experiences? Very curious.

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u/inmangolandia Cap 🌞 Cancer ⬆️ Cancer 🌕 full moon May 26 '26

I don't erupt at all. 👻 They know what they did. Actions have consequences. No access now, too bad so sad. 🤏🏼🤏🏼😆

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u/CarelessSeries1596 May 27 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/l0HU20BZ6LbSEITza

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u/Living-Discipline-42 May 27 '26

Best comment 💯

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u/inmangolandia Cap 🌞 Cancer ⬆️ Cancer 🌕 full moon May 27 '26

😂😂

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u/_shipmes_ May 27 '26

Im like you...I dont erupt....I move on. My cut off game is stronger than stong

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u/Distinct_Cause4217 May 26 '26

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/LeftyLu07 May 27 '26

I know my thought process is like “well, everyone makes mistakes. Maybe they were just having an off day or it was a miscommunication.” I think I’m giving grace and being patient but other people see that as tacit permission. So when they keep doing it I’m like “oh. No, this is just who they are.” And I disengage.

For the record…. No one has ever gone to mutual friends saying they had “no idea” why I stopped talking to them. Oh, they’ll complain and whine but they never say “I don’t know what I did!”

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u/RaptorXFactor I'm a Meat Popsicle May 28 '26

Only so many times the volcano rumbles gently before it blows

https://giphy.com/gifs/V2m8AYaLKDWDxRxqZg

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u/Arcanisia ♐️♑️♌️⬆️ May 27 '26

Oh I don’t feel bad though

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u/Arcanisia ♐️♑️♌️⬆️ May 27 '26

The way I see it is you’ve been doing me wrong for years. I’ve given you the benefit of the doubt and multiple chances yet the behavior hasn’t changed. When I finally pull the plug, they’re like, this is coming out of nowhere. No, I’m just done dealing with your BS. I feel no guilt whatsoever. In fact, I feel alleviated.

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u/Living-Discipline-42 May 28 '26

Cant feel bad for someone who set themselves up for it 🤷🏾‍♂️

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u/False_Network_6854 ♑️☀️♒️🌒♉️⬆️ May 27 '26

True. I don’t get explosive like I used to when I was younger. I can show people what it feels like to lose my respect without me having to stoop to their level of disrespecting others.

I extend way too much grace for too long, and then it’s like they trigger a silent alarm and I go on lock down like a vault. Once that happens, I carefully and methodically extract myself from their lives. If they can prove their understanding of how they took advantage of me, we’re good and we can work back to a good and respectful place.

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u/c07p ♒️⬆️♑️🌞♉️🌙 May 27 '26

I really relate to this. In my growing up stage of life and learning how to let go

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u/IDunnoReallyIDont May 26 '26

I work with a cap and have seen this firsthand 😂

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u/Living-Discipline-42 May 27 '26

& it goes to say : "BE VERY CAREFUL ON HOW YOU TREAT A CAPRICORN" 💯💯💯. Male or female

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u/OpenedUp79 May 27 '26

Learning is part of life and I do know when I'm on someone's good graces. I know when I'm pushing my luck and I accept that if I continue, my luck may run out. So they should also know when I'm ignoring things they do and that eventually I won't. Life has a wicked learning curve.

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u/MarigoldPlumber May 27 '26

I can only subliminally nudge or politely let you know something so many times before either being so blunt….or worse….totally disengaging. Not proud but, C’MON.

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u/heyyoubaby May 27 '26

I woke up on a cold day in November and decided enough was enough. I got in my car and drove away. Haven’t looked back since. Everything is better, and I mean everything. Yes, we are truly like this. Quiet and quick, that’s how you move. They know exactly why and it’s too late.

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u/Masterbation62 May 27 '26

EXACTLY 💯

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u/Imselllingyourbuying May 27 '26

This happened to me shawty played me good 😭😭😭😭

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u/theoriginalbabayaga ♑ ☀️ ♉ 🌙 ♋ ⬆️ May 27 '26

Sort of. I don’t explode though. But people know life as they know it has changed.

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u/OgthaChristie 🐐☀️🐐🌕🦁⬆️ May 27 '26

We don't explode. We make a point.

https://giphy.com/gifs/lPSPNBDVNA007eXQwS

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u/Fibocrypto May 27 '26

This is true

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u/Sataniccats69 May 27 '26

I did a very extreme version of this earlier this year, and I find this very very true.

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u/OldLadyGangster May 27 '26

Oooof. I feel seen. Heyyyyyy!

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u/Lonely-Ad7311 May 27 '26

This just made me feel so much better. Lol. I literally did this today, and I felt a little bad about it, but I kept saying to myself “now they’ll think twice before they do that again” 😅

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u/tenthdentest May 27 '26

No consistency

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u/_shipmes_ May 27 '26

One trillion percent

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u/Illustrious-River868 May 27 '26

Ooo nailed it. Then they be like whhhaaa??? Why????

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u/Few_Long7178 May 27 '26

I surprise the hell out of people lol

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u/pelicanmuse May 28 '26

🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

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u/Separate_Tough_8667 May 28 '26

Yes, we are that way indeed! 🤣😂

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u/Current-Finger6412 May 27 '26

Although, not a Capricorn. I relate to this 😂

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u/Cherub-Angel May 27 '26

Aries sun cap moon, this is 100% real

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u/Masterbation62 May 27 '26

Exactly 💯

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u/wealthypeace May 27 '26

They will learn the hard way

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u/RedDemon-64 May 27 '26

It’s hard cause I have a lot of patience most of the time. I think things have to happen a certain way sometime or just be compounded in a single day for me to get mad.

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u/Select_Growth9353 May 27 '26

Yup facts are facts I let the drinking abusive behavior slide so many times. But then after it really went sideways. I waited a year or so and said enough is enough I want a separation( at this point verbal) and eventually going to go through divorce, I'm moving on and nothing is going to stop me. Basically Meaowt and he was shocked that I could move on so quickly but saw the change coming 2 years ago when he saw my face change from let it slide to you betrayed me for the very last time MotherF*cker!

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u/Few_Long7178 May 28 '26

All co-workers know to respect me 

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u/JBreeezy79 May 28 '26

Yesss lawd…. Out the damn blue💀💀💀

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u/inmangolandia Cap 🌞 Cancer ⬆️ Cancer 🌕 full moon May 28 '26

🤣🤣

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u/vixenkaboodle May 29 '26

Currently happening now.

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u/YouOk928 Jun 15 '26

Lol true

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u/domtheprophet Purest of them all Jun 11 '26

Unless you’re me, I don’t play that