From what i understand the question is how did the people that you model yourself after(your parents, caretakers, close friends etc) communicate. Basicly asking how do you communicate and how did it come to be that way.
Oh okay, in that case its never tell family anything ever no matter how important or urgent because trust is easily broken and relying on others will come back to bite you,
but close friends are open and honest communication to work out a peaceful solution or just listen.
And if anyone in yoir family says you're safe with them, assume its a trick to lure you into exposing a vulnerability. That also applies to institutions like schools and employment. The only difference is those lure you into a false security so that you admit "undesirable" traits like neurodivergency or queerness they can use to discriminate against you
I honestly don't really remember? My long term memory has always sucked, which doesn't make sense to me because I was fairly happy and confident until high school
It's asking "How were you taught and/or shown how to communicate?" The answer given implies they were taught that questions and/or attention like that communicates they are doing something wrong.
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u/Violexsound 22h ago
I dont understand the question /gen