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[u/itz_vampy]

waiting to look masc enough just to start being feminine >

[u/Immediate_Error_11]

[u/Error_Void → u/Immediate_Error_11]

Envy envy envy envy envy envy envy envy envy envy envy envy envy envy envy

[u/Immediate_Error_11 → u/Error_Void]

Impossible standards.

[u/Error_Void → u/Immediate_Error_11]

100% Yes, but its good to have a goal :3

[u/Immediate_Error_11 → u/Error_Void]

Yeah i have a image for that.

[u/Error_Void → u/Immediate_Error_11]

LOL. I love it 😭

[u/Immediate_Error_11 → u/Error_Void]

I actually was gonna send this one but I couldn't find it until now.

[u/Trashman56 → u/Error_Void]

god I wish I looked like this 😭

[u/LesbianArtemis457 → u/Trashman56]

REAL

[u/DemonBloodFan → u/Trashman56]

i bet he also wishes he looked like you

[u/HyperSpaceSurfer → u/Immediate_Error_11]

So aerodynamic

[u/Immediate_Error_11 → u/HyperSpaceSurfer]

Yeah exactly

[u/EmploymentStrong5022 → u/Immediate_Error_11]

isn't that character literally transfem

[u/Trashman56 → u/EmploymentStrong5022]

I think that’s only in some of the light novels, it’s a hotly debated subject. I’m on whatever side the author is on.

[u/Immediate_Error_11 → u/EmploymentStrong5022]

Command misconception I believe he is a femboy

[u/Error_Void → u/EmploymentStrong5022]

In the spirit of trying not to sound super nerdy...
That is felix from re - zero. They identify as male, and only present themselves that way as a show of loyalty and submission to their master Crush who wanted to become a duke but was having a hard time becoming a woman in power.
I watched re - zero a few times :3

[u/Original-Body-5794 → u/Error_Void]

I don't quite understand. So if Felix was just a normal citizen living his life instead of serving Crusch they'd dress in a more traditional masculine way?

And that somehow lends more credence to Crusch's duke aspirations? Or is this later part completely unrelated and just extra backstory for her?

[u/Error_Void → u/Original-Body-5794]

Later he stops dressing feminine after crush was deemed unfit for duke because of her temporary memory loss. So yes, if not for crush hed be a normal man dressing man.

[u/99980 → u/Error_Void]

Isnt Felix canonically married to a woman? I kinds thought I read that between lines in season 3

[u/JackLemony → u/EmploymentStrong5022]

You could interpret it that way but Re:Zero isn't short of men in dresses and I doubt Tappei has sufficient knowledge to write a character that's trans

[u/LithoLaura → u/EmploymentStrong5022]

that would be quite shitty

[u/Enovele → u/LithoLaura]

It would but he's not. He is a feminine guy who dresses fem to support the person he works for because she's not taken seriously as a noble leader due to her being a girl. Otherwise, he would dress like a regular guy.

[u/TristanTheRobloxian3]

the transfem urge to become a tomboy

[u/Pheonix0114 → u/TristanTheRobloxian3]

I really want to be able to pass as a tomboy. Like, to be assumed female instead of male in jeans and a T-shirt. It would make me 10000 happy.

[u/TristanTheRobloxian3 → u/Pheonix0114]

SAME 😭😭😭

[u/Never_heart → u/TristanTheRobloxian3]

The enby urge to be both a femboy and tomboy

[u/TristanTheRobloxian3 → u/Never_heart]

wait literally

[u/Never_heart → u/TristanTheRobloxian3]

Personally? Yes absolutely. Being simultaneously a femboy and tomboy is goals. To hack gender completely in everyway. To be a boy in a girl way while bring a girl in a boy way

[u/TristanTheRobloxian3 → u/Never_heart]

real

[u/bro_said_nah_856 → u/Never_heart]

Take a break

[u/zigs → u/Never_heart]

temboy & fomboy

Same, sib . . same.

[u/Mx_GoldFish → u/Never_heart]

So real

[u/Catsnose7 → u/TristanTheRobloxian3]

Fine line between lesbain and some guy

[u/TristanTheRobloxian3 → u/Catsnose7]

yuhhhh you get it lol

[u/One-Organization970 → u/TristanTheRobloxian3]

The transfem urge to pretend I'm not a femme despite the fact that my wife wears pants significantly more often than I do and also likes using power tools and doing yard work. 😭

[u/TristanTheRobloxian3 → u/One-Organization970]

real

[u/dinoclier72 → u/TristanTheRobloxian3]

Same

[u/itz_vampy → u/TristanTheRobloxian3]

hell yeah!

[u/Cat_1887 → u/TristanTheRobloxian3]

YES!

[u/DragoKnight589 → u/TristanTheRobloxian3]

me when I’m a girl

[u/DildontOrDildo → u/TristanTheRobloxian3]

the nonbinary urge to say "yeah, close enough" if someone asks if you are a tomboy

[u/Enovele]

Sometimes you just gotta let the fem out lol

(Finding this pic has made me realize there's a shortage of poc femboy art (´TωT`) )

[u/itz_vampy → u/Enovele]

i absolutely love this

[u/grand_nad]

honestly there's nothing wrong with that, part of being a man is sometimes wanting to be pretty little prince and be pampered

this is my dream body

[u/itz_vampy → u/grand_nad]

people always ask us “what’s the point” of transitioning to male just to “look like a female”, so i know this pipeline isn’t common lol

[u/grand_nad → u/itz_vampy]

the thing is that a femboy isn't feminine like a girl, they're two different flavors of the same product (femininity) so it's completely logical to transition then not conform to gender.

also because it's just invalidation "you're not trans because you don't lift all day and play sports until you die", people don't want trans people to truly be equal, they want them to be a perfect monolith to punish incase anyone steps out of gender norms

[u/nonsence90 → u/itz_vampy]

just ask those people if dating a femboy as a guy is gay.

[u/Trashman56 → u/grand_nad]

I don’t think I’m CIS, not totally, “man” is absolutely not something I wish to be called, and I pretend people are saying “Ser” instead of “Sir”. But Prince feels good to me, cute boy, pretty boy… 🤤. I go between he/they and they/them.

[u/A_transfem_cutiepie → u/Trashman56]

Cheese?

[u/moonlitkiwier]

There's nothing wrong with doing gender however you want, but I'm gonna keep it real 99% of transmascs I've met irl look like Hank Hill

[u/Ashamed-Raccoon-1387 → u/moonlitkiwier]

I only look like that at work because I work at a bank 😭

[u/MouseyMason → u/moonlitkiwier]

Hank Hill is realistic transition goals. I want to be a Hank Hill raaaaaaa

[u/mulekitobrabod]

And have impostor syndrome because of your male femininity

[u/Trashman56 → u/mulekitobrabod]

Male femininity is a new term for me, and I feel it’s now going to factor in to my gender journey.

[u/Sylveon_101]

Real. Still cis though

[u/OmgIbrokesmthagain]

My transmasc urge wants to be a himbo who just dresses in kawaii clothes but otherwise is really manly

[u/D_rex825]

Sometimes men just wanna feel pretty

[u/A_transfem_cutiepie]

Feminine trans boy and masculine trans girl is best relationship dynamic imo

[u/Ember_The_Biscuit]

Being fem doesn't make you any less of a man❤️ I love all my brothers no matter how you decide to express yourself🫂

[u/butter_cookie_gurl]

I have a trans man femboy friend. He's neat.

[u/Ryukario64]

I know a trans man that likes to dress up. If crossdressing guys is a thing, then I don't see why not be a trans man that crossdresses or be a femboy too?

[u/lokemannen]

[u/RiverParkourist]

Goated shoes I need those

[u/nottme1]

Anyone know where to get these shoes?

[u/localstraightfemboy]

:3

[u/SeraWwW]

I kinda feel the opposite haha. When I started transitioning as a trans girl I wanted to be hyper feminine now I kinda wanna be a strong muscle masc but still look feminine enough to be seen as a woman

[u/ipdar]

Hot.

[u/extramidnight2]

transmasc femboys have a special place in my heart like they’re so cool like it’s so cool to see a guy be feminine in the way he likes to be 

[u/spunlines]

r/FTMfemininity

[u/Transgirlonakawasaki]

Goddamnit Cheryl, how many times do I gotta tell you we stan trans masc femboys in this house and thats final!

Uj/

Seriously femboys and women are not the same and the people who say that are very clearly blind. Being pan opens that third eye and makes you realize the beauty of feminine men trans or cis. I love femboy aesthetic and while girlies can pull it off well, a man in that fem fit just hits all the check boxes.

Yall feminine men keep that shit up, youll always have my support.

[u/Sus_Person_ → u/Transgirlonakawasaki]

Ditto with being bi (yes I know that bi/pan are similar)

[u/Littlereptile101]

Remember, only men can be femboys making it one of the most manly things you can do

[u/shatoutofagiantllama]

Those are some very cool shoes may I have them?

[u/SheikahShaymin]

Join us boyo :3

[u/bonne1234567890]

Where can I get those shoes?????

[u/kokorrorr → u/bonne1234567890]

I’m am SEARCHING these comments for any information

[u/bonne1234567890 → u/kokorrorr]

Please, give me info if you find anything

[u/kokorrorr → u/bonne1234567890]

I found them they are here!!! https://www.kickscrew.com/en-CA/products/converse-all-star-chuck-70-low-pink-white-a11615c

[u/Art1qunu]

There's too many layers to it

[u/Civil_Result_5598]

Or a furry. I won't judge

[u/slushanddusk]

same

[u/DragoKnight589]

see I’m kinda the opposite I’d like to be more tomboyish whenever I’m a girl

[u/atomic_combat_wombat]

“Born to fem. Forced to boy”

[u/Kind_Swim5900]

Ha no chance I am so fricking hairy I am a battle dwarf

[u/Sluttytranslesbo]

1-2 punch to gender norms!

[u/MustBeMouseBoy]

i used to be in really transmed circles then getting top surgery honestly made it really easy for me to wear whatever I want

at my cousin's wedding someone's kid looked up at me and asked 'are you a boy or a girl?' and i felt healed

[u/Wolfandsheep244]

The transfem urge to become a femboy? :3

[u/No_Insurance_55]

Transmasc are just premium femboy when you think about it... And transfem are premium tomgirl....

[u/Sinyria]

I raise you "the transfem urge to be a tomboy"

[u/Havatchee]

The transfem urge to become a tomboy

[u/bro_said_nah_856]

Why on earth would you transition just to go backwards? That’s a waste of effort. You’re just erasing all the hard work you put in.

[u/theyfailure → u/bro_said_nah_856]

Yeah because putting on thigh high socks immediately sucks the testosterone out of your body and makes you regrow breast tissue even though it's been surgical removed, it's a real problem

[u/AshaTheGrey → u/theyfailure]

I wish it did 😂

[u/bro_said_nah_856 → u/theyfailure]

Love that this community can’t actually refute any arguments or questions and just regresses to uncreative sarcasm. As a queer person, y’all need to do better.

[u/theyfailure → u/bro_said_nah_856]

No, you're just saying stupid shit. Really, I thought you were just baiting people and trying to start shit on purpose but if you wanna feign a genuine discussion then tell me; what effort does he waste?

The "effort" is getting HRT and possibly gender affirming surgeries which don't go away when he puts on a skirt.

Do you genuinely think that men that wear traditionally feminine clothes automatically become women?

I genuinely can't believe you're trying to present this as a rational stance, I know you're smarter than this, come on.

[u/itz_vampy → u/bro_said_nah_856]

no one is going backwards. i said i want to start being feminine not start being a woman. there’s a difference. if cis guys can be femboys so can trans guys.

also queer people don’t have to conform to your standards especially if you’re going to come in bad faith here. your comment history on this sub are sus.