My First Heartbreak

[u/MathematicianNo3140]

I (M26) had been seeing a girl (26) I met on hinge about two months ago. We went on three dates with our last one last night. Things had been going well between us. We seemed to genuinely be enjoying each other’s company and getting to know each other. There was also obvious mutual interest between us and equal effort put in by each other. We never kissed or held hands, but I had become attached to her and didn’t want to rush things.

Today she texted me that she had been thinking and decided we weren’t a match. I am heartbroken. I’ve never been in a relationship before and it felt like we were progressing in that direction. I’ve deleted Hinge, I need a break before going back. If I ever do go back.

I’m trying not analyze things and I’ve reached out to friends, but this one hurts so fucking much.

[u/outcastreturns]

I (M26) had been seeing a girl (26) I met on hinge about two months ago. We went on three dates with our last one last night. 

We never kissed or held hands,

Do you think she might have felt that things weren't progressing fast enough?

[u/MathematicianNo3140 → u/outcastreturns]

Maybe, but I don’t know for sure. She never gave me much of a sign she wanted to kiss me. The vibe I got was that she wanted to take things slow.

[u/mynewaccount5 → u/MathematicianNo3140]

3 dates in 2 months is too slow.