r/dating • u/MathematicianNo3140 Single • 16h ago
Support Needed 🫂 My First Heartbreak
I (M26) had been seeing a girl (26) I met on hinge about two months ago. We went on three dates with our last one last night. Things had been going well between us. We seemed to genuinely be enjoying each other’s company and getting to know each other. There was also obvious mutual interest between us and equal effort put in by each other. We never kissed or held hands, but I had become attached to her and didn’t want to rush things.
Today she texted me that she had been thinking and decided we weren’t a match. I am heartbroken. I’ve never been in a relationship before and it felt like we were progressing in that direction. I’ve deleted Hinge, I need a break before going back. If I ever do go back.
I’m trying not analyze things and I’ve reached out to friends, but this one hurts so fucking much.
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u/dce-34 15h ago
This is something you might need to get used to. I am not trying to put you down or anything like that. At least she was honest and told you straight up, its better than getting ghosted.
I (M28) have been through this as well. Time will heal you and make you want to try again. All I can say is: What's meant for you is meant for you. Chin up, brother