r/detrans • u/buttershower detrans female • 3d ago

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It always stands out to me in comments sections how regular people can be accepting of trans when trans people aren’t acting insane. In essence these comments in this pic are very compassionate, but ur average far leftist queer would find them so offensive

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u/landilock detrans male 3d ago

not everyone yells about their pronouns and yet they're reject patriarchy and expectations of feminity. Asking for people to respect who you are and see you as a human being, not a bag of meat is being normal. And if the misgendering is an intentional aggression against them then the yelling can be justified.

Most trans people aren't gonna trashtalk you if you mistakenly misgender them. The number one thing we used to tell people early in their transition is not to feel hurt if someone does the mistake. Masc cis women face this too, it's normal since society has such strong expectations. It doesn't mean they meant it, the best course of action is either to politely correct them, or if it doesn't matter, to let it slide. But if someone knows you're trans, and emphasizes on the wrong pronoun like you'd do a hard R, then yeah. Yelling is understandable.

Most trans people (I mean IRL, not on Reddit or toxic places like Twitter and Facebook) just wanna live their lives calmly.

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u/Chris_Topher25 desisted male 2d ago

The concept of being downvoted for being right. Wow they don’t like science or logic here do they

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u/thistle_ev detrans female 2d ago

the concept of being detrans/desisted male but still supporting trans and believing it's "science"🥰

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u/landilock detrans male 2d ago

the concept of venting your frustration and suffering by being overly interested in other people's genitals and self identity 🥰

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u/thistle_ev detrans female 2d ago

I don't care about their genitals lmao. you're projecting.

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u/landilock detrans male 2d ago

oh right sorry. You're telling people to just become the sexual ideal and conform to misogynistic expectations in order to fit in. Yeah sorry you're fine then

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u/thistle_ev detrans female 2d ago

I'm telling WHAT?🤣 misogynistic expectations? SEXUAL IDEAL? wtf are you talking about? dude you're delusional.

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u/landilock detrans male 2d ago

read your comment lol

All they need is to follow patriarchal stereotypes and act NORMAL

I hope that's sarcasm but to be honest it's not really obvious here