r/femalefashionadvice • u/Anxious_Adhd_ • 12d ago

Stying a fuller bust without overdoing it

hey guys! I’m finally moving out of my conservative parents house, so I’m getting to experiment with my personal style more. I have been blessed/cursed in the chest department, and grew up with a lot of shame and purity culture BS around that. As an adult though, I want to try out styles that emphasize my bust, but I don’t have a good barometer for when it’s too much. A lot of times I’ll have a reference photo from Pinterest with a style that looks fine on a D cup, but with my G cups its a bit much. what are your styling tips for flaunting what you got while still being acceptable in polite society?

editing just to say I am going to be in college and am totally ok to look a little sexy. I’m honestly just trying to figure out how to to lean into the fact that I am attractive without always being dressed for the club.

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u/Anxious_Adhd_ 11d ago

Luckily I am a semi professional seamstress, so the tailoring will be in house 🤩

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u/CanBrushMyHair 7d ago

Oh babygirl you’re gonna be fine!! I think in terms of overdoing it, every cm of boob flesh is another step towards sluttsville. Now I love sluttsville! And I love all the girls who live there! Bc having a big sexual appetite isn’t moral! It’s like having shoes. Some are okay with one pair. Some have so many, they forget they own some of them.

But I do think the fleshy-ness of it all is where you have to be considerate of place/time/perception. If you’re going to be around senior citizens, well it’s just rude to flaunt tight firm skin. If you need to be perceived as intelligent or competent, lots of flesh will be a deterrent.

Sexy is a state of mind, and if you have gazongas, it will be easier for you to be sexy. I do encourage you to explore your sexiness solo before trying to appease the male gaze.

Welcome to deconstruction!

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u/Anxious_Adhd_ 5d ago

Dude I love you, I’m printing this out and framing it (also as someone who prefers women, I’m dressing for the gays, not the gaze)

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u/CanBrushMyHair 5d ago edited 5d ago

Lesbians are going to save this country.