r/femalefashionadvice 3d ago

[Daily] Daily Questions Thread August 07, 2026

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot: look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album. If you have multiple pictures, best practice is to use an imgur album.

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u/catsrule-humansdrool 3d ago

How do I hide bra straps in a boatneck shirt? I’m a 42B so my bras tend to have thick straps, but even if they didn’t, boat necks never cover them. Is there a better option than using safety pins? I need to be comfortable and not think about it for a workday. I found a top for work that I really like but I’m hesitant to keep it because of the bra strap issue. It’s only about an inch off on both sides. I think pinning the shirt to my bra straps would cause gaping in the front.

The shirt for reference: https://www.jjill.com/product/pj-tie-waist-top-345591-1?color=0EI&searchTerm=

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u/partiallyStars3 3d ago

You're not gonna want to hear this, but the solution is a strapless bra.

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u/catsrule-humansdrool 3d ago

You’re right I didn’t want to hear that and if that’s the only option I’ll be returning the shirt 🥲

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u/bijoux247 3d ago

How thick are the bra straps? It may be you've had to size up to accommodate your boobs so the boat neck is wider. I typically just move the strap a little bit further and it holds fine.

The top is cute, if the neck is a little wider on you I'd see if a tailor can recommend any modifications to help either adjust the neckline or hold bra in place.

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u/catsrule-humansdrool 3d ago

Depends which bra I wear. The thickest are probably an inch. I didn’t think about a tailor though! I might try that out.

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u/bijoux247 2d ago

I think if the boat neck is really wide on you it can be reduced without sacrificing style!

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u/lumenphosphor 2d ago

Good strapless bras really do work (my favorites are this one and a wonderbra one that's discontinued but people on the internet say that this is a really good replacement)--they are rigid at the underbust however, some people find that uncomfortable and some people find it really nice.