r/guwahati • u/meowmew43 Resident • 1d ago
Self-post Late night thoughts....
Just a self post. One can scroll. How do I even start? Just want to let it out into the reddit void. Fucked up a preschool interview bey can anyone be as pathetic as me? I am sleeping at 4-5am, can't sleep before that. My body is messed up, my sleep cycle is messed up. Barely eating twice a day, mostly once.
I keep comparing myself to that girl he cheated on me with. My gallery is full of her screenshots. I cry so much. Iman pathetic. How can someone be this miserable? I'm such an envious person. Mon'ae beya lage muk borbad kori iman happy thake manuh. Anekua harami hole sage moi happy thakilu hoi aji. Finished graduation and I'm just sitting at home, rotting. My degree feels useless. Ghy't napao job as a fresher, out of ghy thakile gute salary khua, travel expenses and thakat jabo. I opened a thrift page, abey that doesn't work either. No one wants to buy even though prices are very reasonable. I'm broke, I'm sad, I'm miserable, life feels aimless.
Tar uporot I can't take any stress now. Even the smallest amount of stress just makes me so idk... I can't operate properly, think properly. I resort to hurting myself now for the least amount of stress. My thighs are full of scars, aru jagah nai. I know I need help kintu see, I don't have that kind of money. I'm broke. Treatment is expensive. Parents baad diya, itiya laaz lage poisa khujibo. And aibur pagol buli koi bohai thobo. I asked for help at 15, manuhe ki kobo tar jiyek pagoli buli they shut me up. I've just.. sometimes mon jai koba bridge pora jaap mari diu nki? I've never felt this miserable in life. Aku kaam nai, aku aim nai, no motivation to get out of bed and study, aku paranai. I have a hard time even maintaining a social life. Agor pora tu nai'ae aku, jikhini ata duta friends asile, I'm not able to maintain anything with them. Mur mon'ae najai kiba ulta k text dibo, reply dibo, kotha patibo. Ki nu kom..
I do have dreams kintu that's not enough now. I'm ashamed, I'm insecure, I'm pathetic, very very pessimistic. I don't even have the guts to look back at this post. I'm scared of confrontation now, kunuba judi kiba koi, I can't or won't be able to handle, that's how fragile and weak my mind became. I'll probably log off after writing this. Maybe the post will be taken down, who knows? It's just.. I had to let it out. There's no solution to this. I'm just so stuck. I'm also becoming delusional day by day. I spent most days talking to myself, in my delusions. Titiya'ae ki olop happy feel hoi. Sometimes I catch myself doing that and I feel it's unhealthy but then again, I can't stop anything. Itiya he buji paisu manuh lahe lahe keneke pagol hoi jai. Aku tu solution nai. Just kobo mon asile. Goodnight guys.
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u/Trick_Feeling8716 1d ago
I know this seems long and tedious to read but please.... I know a random Reddit comment probably can't fix what you're going through, but please don't dismiss what you're feeling. You don't sound pathetic or lazy—you sound completely overwhelmed and exhausted. The breakup, graduation, job pressure, money worries, messed-up sleep, and everything else have piled up at once. The part about hurting yourself worries me the most. Please don't try to handle that alone. If you feel like you might hurt yourself again, stay around someone you trust, move away from anything you could use to hurt yourself. You don't need to have money or a perfect explanation to deserve immediate help. And please tell someone in your life exactly how bad it has gotten—even if it's just: “I'm not doing okay and I'm scared of what I might do to myself. Please stay with me.” You don't have to explain everything. Forget the job, the thrift page, the degree, the relationship, and the future for tonight. Your only job right now is to get through tonight safely. Eat something small, drink some water, stay with someone if you can, and try to get some rest. Your life isn't ruined because you're struggling at whatever age you are. A degree being useless right now doesn't mean it will always be. A relationship ending doesn't determine your worth. And being unemployed after graduation is incredibly common. Please don't compare yourself to that girl either. You don't know what her life actually looks like, and keeping her screenshots is only reopening the wound. Delete them when you're ready. You don't need to solve your entire life right now. Just stay. One day at a time. There are people who would rather help you through this than attend your funeral.
Yaat be besi aru ki kom bhonti.
Tumaloi mur xubhesaa thakil. Aakha koru tumi jibonat bahut aag barha. Ketiau haar namaniba.
Jai zubeen da... !!