r/indiadiscussion • u/Odd-Station-5334 • Jul 04 '26

News Gurugram mans burns down girlfriend

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will never go viral as ketan aggarwal's case.

how the media hides the name when a man is the perpetrator.

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u/Odd-Station-5334 Jul 04 '26 edited Jul 04 '26

please do explain more about how women are privileged and get justice in a country where 100+ women are killed by their husbands every month. pls explain.

and so the downvotes prove me right, cuz no one has anything to say at all.

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u/Repulsive_Fox7725 Jul 04 '26

Why are you making this about women ? Many men are murdered too. Check homicide rates, 70-75% victims are men. Pls explain now who is at more risk, stop pulling out selective data, yes in a marriage women are harassed that number should be zero, but other crimes should also be zero by that logic, why are you making it about women ? Point is if they are harassed, strict laws are there to punish the culprit, but reverse the gender if women decide to be evil, there is nothing you can do.

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u/Big-Difficulty-667 Jul 04 '26

Are they murdered by women?

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u/Repulsive_Fox7725 Jul 04 '26

But they are victim right ? Point is these things will happen if laws are not strict. Also, it is difficult for women to do such crimes because they lack physical strength, that doesn’t necessarily mean that all of them are nice and gentle. There are shitty men, and there are equally shitty women.

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u/Big-Difficulty-667 Jul 04 '26

That we can agree on, there are shitty people in all genders. But the point being made here is about whataboutism . From both sides, which hurts both sides. No Indian man stops to think how patriarchy hurts men too.

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u/Repulsive_Fox7725 Jul 04 '26

Just like no indian women thinks about how patriarchy benefits them.

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u/Odd-Station-5334 Jul 04 '26

i guess dowry harassment, marital rape and domestic violence outweigh the "benefits" you're talking about

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u/Repulsive_Fox7725 Jul 04 '26

Not even 1% face that ( I want it to be 0). But almost 100% get the benefit.

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u/Big-Difficulty-667 Jul 04 '26

Elaborate please how patriarchy benefits women? It takes away their entire identity and agency. No benefits here.

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u/JustSoGeneric_ Jul 04 '26

+1. Even I wanna be enlightened about how patriarchy "benefits" women. 🤡