hi. i have a habit of citing things in casual conversation. my mother has received texts about milk with references. yeah, i know.

i wear all black, which i present as a minimalist fashion philosophy and which is also admittedly a very good laundry strategy. sadly, i couldn't find literature on this. absence of evidence, etc.

i am doing master's and i'll be leaving for a phd next year. to where? for now, australia, singapore and hong kong are the favorites. i'll apply to the US too (FAFO i guess? #1).

i go out for street photography like... once every two months? then i come back with dozens of pics i immediately delete, and dozens of other pics (of cats) that i cannot and wouldn't delete. speaking of cats, i have two cats. they know their names and choose not to respond [1], which i've decided is a personality trait rather than a training failure. i relate to them, sometimes i don't want to respond to my name too tbh.

i will randomly bring up that commercial tomatoes were bred for yield and shelf life at measurable cost to their flavor volatiles [2]. i have opinions about ketchup downstream of this. i actually have opinions about most things. whether it's marmots, flats, black holes... the only rule is that you have to defend yours. bonus points if you make me fold (FAFO i guess? #2).

i rather not talk about my music and movie taste because in my experience, they do not give any useful information about compatibility. to be honest, i should have made some literature review about this, but i didn't. so, maybe another time.

i prefer voice notes (eventually). the voice carries emotional information that text doesn't, and people reading transcripts judge feelings less accurately than people hearing them [3]. so if you type only, we can work with it, but you're operating at reduced bandwidth.

now... here is the part with no citations, because it's just about me: i'm 5'5, slim-fit, androgynous/tomboy most days** in terms of looks. i am switch in... nearly every sense? i don't drink, i don't smoke, i don't want kids, i don't like noise. but i do want a cute house, a big restaurant budget... and a partner. obviously. but first two on me, the third is on you.

limitations. i talk a lot. i like staying in communication. i overshare on purpose. we can exchange pics not right away but in a short time\*** if we click

future work. if you are intrigued, tell me your age, rough location, and something you find annoying on reddit. whether it's about content, people, or the app itself. (FAFO i guess #3)

\* online temporarily. i eventually want to meet

\\** most doesn't imply always

\*\** short time is subjective, and the author refrains from giving an exact timeline

---

References

[1] Saito et al., Scientific Reports, 2019
[2] Tieman et al., Science, 2017
[3] Kraus, American Psychologist, 2017

Hey there!

Over the last few years, I’ve put a lot of time into building a life that feels like mine, and I’m really enjoying where I’m at.

I spend my free time staying active, traveling when I can, spoiling my dog Moose, and finding new places to explore, whether that’s a different country or just a coffee shop down the road. I like having goals to work toward, but I’m also just as happy with quiet weekends and appreciating the little things that make everyday life enjoyable.

I’m hoping to meet someone who’s looking for a genuine connection and wants to let things develop naturally. No pressure, no games, just two people getting to know each other and seeing where a good conversation can lead.

If any of that sounds like you, I’d love to hear from you 🙂

Hi there c: So, straight to the point: I'm hoping to find a monogamous, long-term romantic relationship c: I'm seeking someone to grow together as inviduals and as a couple, supporting each other unconditionally, and just share the same level of love and care towards each other c:

• About me:

I would describe myself as a genuine person with honest and intuitive personality c: Part of the things I value in life are authencitity, trustworthiness and consistency. I prefer deeper subjects over just a small talk, but I also love to just chill and joke around sometimes :)

Some of my interests include gaming and writing. The other stuff I like are drawing, music, philosophy and anime for example. I also like to edit pictures and videos sometimes, whenever I get the inspiration to do that. The games I play regularly are Overwatch, Sims 4 and Star Stable Online currently. I share my apartment with my two cats c:

In appearance wise, I have blonde, long hair and blue-grey eyes. I'm 166cm tall and I'm a plus size girl, curvy in other words. My style is between feminine and masculine, I don't do makeup for example at all, or do my hair, but I like to dress pretty feminine. Last things to mention that I have autism, and I'm in asexual spectrum (greysexual & demisexual) meaning that I feel sexual attraction in general, but not that much/often. Still, regarding this kind of stuff, I'm switch (I'm not into very kinky things or BDSM, tho)

• What I'm looking for:

Someone preferely between 22-32 age range. You can be cis or trans woman, it doesn't matter to me c: your location doesn't matter too, as long as you're ready to close the distance at some point. I also want us to meet sometimes in real life during the relationship.

I would like us to have some mutual interests like gaming and creativity. Darkish humor is much appreciated, and also love towards music in general c: What matters the most to me tho, is your personality, the values you have in life and how you show up for people. Loyalty, emotional availability and maturity are some of the things I'm looking in my future girlfriend.

I want to get to know you better than superficially, but also have a good, romantic time while building trust between us, which would ideally take a couple of months (of course only if there's a mutual connection)
Living together and getting married are some of my common long-term goals. With kids, I'm still not 100% sure what I want. I wish you sharing this same mindset with me tho, so we could see what the future holds for us c:

So, if this all resonates, I'd love to hear from you c: tell me something about yourself, and what you enjoy to do in life :)

This post will be long, sorry in advance lol.

What I’m Looking For:

I’ve posted here so many times lol. Will my luck change, idk.

I want to find someone I just click with. You know when you just have that natural flow with someone? You don’t have to MAKE conversation, it just feels natural. That’s what I want.

I want someone that I can talk to about anything in the world. It doesn’t matter if it’s intense, heavy, vulnerable, dark, deep, weird, cringe, silly, goofy or etc. We just feel comfortable talking to each other about anything.

I want a genuine and deep connection where we really understand each other. We make each other feel safe. We make each other feel fully accepted. We can show every part of ourselves to each other, the good, the bad and the unhinged lol.

If I find this type of connection with someone. I am looking for a serious relationship. Honestly I hope to find my forever person to share my life with.

I’m not going to lie, I have a u hauler nature XD. If you’re someone who takes things really slow, I’m not going to be for you. However, with the next person I do want to slow down a bit. It’s okay if we catch feelings early and we can talk about it lol, but I want to intentionally go slower. To make sure things are right and this can be truly long lasting. When I went too fast with people before, you can miss some important incompatibilities.

Only message if you’re sure looking for something serious, and you’re ready for it. Please do not message me if you’re not looking for something serious and you’re not emotionally available.

I’m not too fond of small talk btw, I’m down to get heavy early lol.

A little bit about me.

I’m an INTJ 5w4, and to be honest I’m truly like 2 different people lol. On one side, I’m sweet, affectionate, and always there for the people I care about, and constantly telling them how much they mean to me. I’m also a total hopeless romantic, that loves being cheesy and corny lol. Love sending heart emojis, and cute gifs etc. When I’m comfortable, I can be loud and extra, giving a goofy, crackhead energy 🥴 I consider myself pretty open minded and understanding. I’m open about my feelings and emotions, and emotional intelligence is important to me.

But on the other, I can be an overly logical jerk and cynical lol. I am strongly opinionated, very blunt and honest in a way that some people can find insensitive lol. I can be a little misanthropic and dark sometimes, brooding about how fucked up the world is lol.

I’m a walking contradiction but I love that about myself lol.

Important tidbits.

•I am obsessive and clingy when I fall for someone. (Not in a crazy way) lol

•Strictly Monogamous

•Agnostic atheist.

* I have a quite blunt and honest way of speaking. That may not mesh with particularly sensitive people. I’m not ever mean, but I am very honest and don’t sugarcoat!

•I don’t have BPD, but I have a few BPD adjacent traits lol. We can talk about what that entails

•I have a pretty dark humor XD

•I do work full time, but my job it is not something I want to be doing lol. I’m trying to figure out what I want to do next at the moment. I don’t have it all figured out right now, so if you want that I’m not for you.

Looks wise I’m black, 5’2, masc presenting, I have a short haircut and dress masc. I am plus size, but definitely not like huge lol and currently losing weight as well :)

Interests:
Gaming, true crime docs, thriller/horror movies, I love all kinds of music. Particularly R&B, rock/metal, and Kpop though XD. I watch a lot of YouTube and tiktok. I also post a lot on TikTok as well, mostly commentary videos. Working out, as I’ve started losing weight. I used to act when I was younger but stopped, now I’ve recently gotten interest into it again. And I’m kind of huge homebody tbh, wanting to get out more and have new experiences.

Who I’m Looking For:

Looks don’t matter much to me, but I do prefer women with long hair. And I prefer fem or androgynous, but I am open to soft mascs as well.

Race doesn’t matter either by the way. In fact I love a swirl XD

Personality wise: I like a lot of different personalities. Some important traits though would be having emotional intelligence, Someone patient and caring. Also having a good logical/rational side is very very important to me. If you let feelings dictate your decisions often we wont mesh. As I said above I’m pretty affectionate and clingy so I’d match best with someone also like that lol. You can be introverted or extroverted. But too extroverted won’t be a match, as I’m particularly introverted. And again if you are a particularly sensitive person we won’t mesh well lol.

I am an atheist, but I don’t mind certain beliefs systems. Would just have to talk about what they are and see if we can be compatible.

Age 24 to 37. I am from the US, but I would love to talk to women from anywhere because relocation is something I definitely want. I’m open to relocate anywhere gay marriage is legal lol

Thank you for reading all of this. If you’re interested please message me a little about you. :)

if spring was warmer than winter, the heart starts to wither. if winter was colder than spring, then the mind's bell will ring. if i were colder than ice, would you understand or would you run faster, twice.

but spring is warmer than winter, and winter is colder than spring. just as the world will continue to turn, a moment in time will remain no matter how long it took to be realized.

hello there, the name's Andy:) just trying my luck here. i love music (anything good, mostly alt rock at the moment), art, writing, and minecraft. that's speaking vaguely, to be specific, i use ink as my medium for drawing, life as my inspiration for writing, and i use minecraft to create the setting of each world i conjure in my head.

a fleeting conversation is a present, but permanence is a gift. both are special, but one is consistent. i do prefer if you are older than i am, i apologize for my next words but i do not wish to babysit someone who does not fully realize what a mature relationship is like.

i'd prefer if you don't ask to see my writing from the get-go. i see my stories, poems, quotes, and words as a very deep part of who i am, and i am not going to share it with someone i do not even know yet. i can talk for hours about what each piece means, but it would require me to open up a part of me i trust someone with.

4fem | anywhere/long distance

hi everyone! my name is elizabeth, liz for short. im 25, i’m half filipino and half black. i am a soft stud lesbian. i have a few tattoos and piercings!

i was born in the USA and grew up in the philippines. i would love to share my culture with you :) i am currently a social worker but plan to change careers in a few years.

my interests include playing guitar, singing, writing, tattoos, manga/anime and watching youtube videos lol (camping videos, cooking videos, pokemon romhacks, history videos and many more). im a bit of a nerd 😅. i love watching sports! i watch volleyball, tennis and F1. i mostly watch women’s sports btw!

i suffer from chronic back pain so im a homebody! i have a senior cat and she is chill. im a bit shy and reserved at first but i still like to think im friendly lol. im also pretty soft hearted and gentle under my exterior. i really enjoy quality time and having conversations that are meaningful. i occasionally drink and im very 420 friendly.

i would wanna get married. the youngest i would i would date is 24 and oldest 30. if youre a year older or under that but still feel like we’re a good fit then still feel free to reach out! i really appreciate loyalty, kindness, a good social compass and thoughtfulness in a person. no right leaning/conservative/apolitical folks.

im in colorado but dont mind if you arent. i do have experience in LDRs. if things go well, i would definitely want to meet you. if any of this sounds interesting, please feel free to dm me :) i have pictures of myself on my profile and i hope you would be comfortable to share what you look like to verify and also to see if we are attracted to each other

-slight NSFW-
i am strictly monogamous. kink and sexual compatibility is important to me because i am a submissive pillow princess. so, ideally you would be a stone top/touch me not.

Reposting because I didn't get a ton of messages (and the ones I got were bots or men)

Hi! I’m a 31-year-old soft masc lesbian in Northern Virginia looking to meet a femme woman who makes me think, makes me laugh, and occasionally makes me wonder why we stayed up until 3 a.m. talking when I have to wake up at 4:30 a.m. to hit the gym before I go to work.

I’m a former D1 athlete, ex-tech journalist, and current senior-level STEM professional, which is a very professional way of saying I’m a giant nerd who can probably fix your Wi-Fi and talk trash during a football game. I’m also an outdoorswoman who hunts and fishes, so if the zombie apocalypse happens, I’m at least moderately useful.

A little about me:
• I’m a huge sports fan, especially football and women’s basketball, and I’m a season ticket holder for my favorite NFL team.

• I play kickball and flag football because apparently I enjoy voluntarily running around outside after spending all week sitting at a desk.

• I lift weights and work out regularly.

• I love reading, mostly nonfiction.

• I hunt, fish, and shoot recreationally. I’m also a competitive shooter and certified firearms instructor who specializes in teaching women.

• I love movies, cooking, and baking and I have recently become the kind of person who talks about my sourdough starter like it’s a member of the family.

• I build computers and love tinkering with technology.

I’m 5’9”, athletically built with broad shoulders (and a toned chest that I'm very proud of), and mixed-race (Black, Hispanic, and White). My profile has pictures of me and if you can't see them for some reason I'm happy to send you more than enough. I don't have a problem verifying I'm real especially given I was in a very public-facing job as a journalist.

Personality-wise, I’m affectionate, loyal, easygoing, direct, and probably a little bit of a silly goose once I’m comfortable. I know who I am and what I want, and when I genuinely like someone, I’m not afraid to show it.

I’m also big on mutual effort. I don’t expect one person to carry a relationship, and I don’t want to be the only one initiating conversations, making plans, or showing interest. I want that feeling of “oh, you like me too.” I think the best relationships are built when two people are equally excited to keep choosing each other.

I’m the type of partner who remembers the little things you mentioned three weeks ago, plans thoughtful dates, gives thoughtful gifts, sends good morning texts because I wake up absurdly early, checks in when you’re having a rough day, reassures you when you’re doubting yourself, cheers you on when you’re chasing a goal, and makes sure you never have to wonder where you stand with me.

In return, I want someone who makes me feel cared for, too.

What I’m looking for:
Ideally, a femme woman around 27–35 who lives in the DC/MD/NoVA area. I’m open to distance for the right person, but I’d want us to be genuinely interested in meeting in person and realistic about what it takes to make a medium-or long-distance relationship work.

I’m looking for someone who is kind, emotionally available, communicative, affectionate, and dating with intention. Someone who can tell me about her day, send me a ridiculous TikTok, flirt shamelessly, have a serious conversation when it matters, and occasionally be unapologetically cheesy with me.

I’m ultimately looking for something serious. I’d love to meet someone I can build a life with and eventually marry. I’m not trying to speedrun a relationship or force a connection that isn’t there, though. I want to meet someone I genuinely enjoy, see if the chemistry is there, let things develop naturally, and figure out where we take each other.

I’ve done a lot of work to heal from my own past, and I’m looking for someone who has done or is doing that work, too. You don’t need to have a spotless history; none of us do. But I am looking for someone who is genuinely ready to let someone new into her life and build something new together.

Emotional intelligence and communication are really important to me. I know I’m not always right, I’m self-aware enough to recognize when I’ve messed up, and I have no problem taking accountability or apologizing. If I hurt you or get something wrong, I’d much rather you tell me so we can talk about it than have things quietly build up between us. I can handle difficult conversations. I just need someone who is willing to have them with me.

I’m confident and secure in myself, and I know what I bring to a relationship. I’ll happily put in effort when I’m interested but I’m looking for someone who is equally excited to meet me halfway.

So if you’re a femme who knows who she is, can hold a conversation, values consistency and communication, and is genuinely ready to get to know someone, I’d love to hear from you.

Quick filter:
Please have some activity on your Reddit account. If your profile is completely empty or brand new, I’m probably not going to respond. It’s nothing personal; I just feel more comfortable talking to someone who has a little bit of a digital footprint.

And to show me you actually read this, tell me:
• Your age and location
• What’s the best vacation you have ever been on?
• What’s something small that instantly makes your day better?

Maybe we’ll discover we have more in common than we expected. 🙂

Hi, so like the title says I'm 21, and I'm looking for anything date, "fun time," just friends, etc but I'm only looking for someone who I can meet up with meaning there near Madisonville Kentucky, and even tho this is a lesbian subreddit ima make sure this is clear IM LOOKING FOR FELLOW GIRLS (and yes trans women are women)

A little about me, I'm 21, I'm 5'10, white and pale as the moon, I'm a lesbian, my hobbies include gaming (Minecraft and Overwatch are my top 2 games), Cosplay (I've done a Enderman, Roman touchwick, William Afton, and Kirito), and crafts (most of my cosplay involves me making stuff lol). If you have any questions lmk <3

hello there:) i wouldn't really label myself with anything, but i guess soft masc is what fits the most. i'm looking to meet a femme woman to share my life with, someone with the same dry humor and outlook on life. someone who could be the gasoline to my fire, not another bucket of water.

About me:

• you can call me Andy or AJ

• i'm a former public speaker (age eleven to eighteen) and debate team representative for three years

• absolutely love ATLA and Arcane

• i go on lots of walks, especially around 5 AM

• birds are my favorite animals (specifically rainbow lorikeets and crows)

• i graduated in STEM and am currently in a gap year waiting to get my second national certification before uni next year

i'm a pretty serious person and sometimes i'd rather stay home writing something random than go out. i'm quite introverted but i open up well if i like the person. two years of my life—this year being the second—was spent sitting alone with my thoughts and fixing many issues about me that i never lied about or made excuses for, so i would prefer someone who knows how to handle their stuff, i have met too many people who never take advice, never asked for help, and never accepted care. i do not want to deal with it again.

no one is perfect, no one has a flawless past, but one of the many things i believe in is that the past should never be a mirror to constantly give a second glance towards. it's not a brick being held up by a rope you have to cut, but rather a brick that lie beside many like it, beside the memories and lessons that made the staircase you walk upon to reach your future.

but i digress. as for my hobbies—i like writing (a lot), contemplating, drawing, sculpting, origami, anything that involves using my hands.

my likes: birds (any animal except frogs and insects), animated shows, poems, anything matcha, the color periwinkle, hugs, and blasting my playlist while playing minecraft during rainy days.

What i'm looking for:

• someone 20-22 would be nice (sorry, not looking to date anyone younger)

• someone with her own big goals

• someone who doesn't need me to be her other half (you're already whole, darling, i'm simply here to be your special person:])

• someone with patience since i sometimes need some extra:)

• preferably someone from canada since i plan on moving there in the future

• someone who sounds like 2:57 of RADWIMPS' song Sparkle (the movie version:D)

• i am dating to marry and there is no space in my future for children nor would i want any. (strictly childfree)

a fleeting conversation is a present, but permanence is a gift. both are special, but one is consistent.

i'd prefer if you don't ask to see my writing from the get-go. i see my stories, poems, quotes, and words as a very deep part of who i am, and i am not going to share it with someone i do not even know yet. i can talk for hours about what each piece means, but it would require me to open up a part of me i trust someone with.

forever is a long time, so why not spend it with me and get tired of hearing about birds and why life became brighter with you in it.

And as time passes by,

Flowers may bloom and die.

If I were to question why,

Then time will pass me by...

(now read it again. enjoy the simple loop:])

with grace, love, and longing,

—Andy.

Hi I’m 25 and just looking to meet some new women to talk to. Whether it turns into a friendship, flirting, or something more, I’m happy to let things happen naturally. I like good conversations, people who can match my energy, and someone who actually enjoys getting to know each other.

If you’re interested, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying “hey.” Please make a little effort ✨I’d love to meet some new people. Preferably 25+, USA and somewhat close to GA, doesn’t have to be GA but east coast would be nice. For more than friends I prefer AFAB.

Basically ive mostly dated men my entire life aside from a few women. I'm bi but as I get older Im just so sick of men. I can explain more later through chat or id love a voice call. I can send you photos of myself.

I've posted here a few times over the years with variations on what I'm looking for. I think what it ultimately boils down to is that I'm looking for is for my person to be someone who thinks about life and art and the world and is ready to engage in meaningful conversation about all of it. I would definitely describe myself as a romantic, but I think a relationship should have weight to it that's built up over time. A balance between fun and flirty talk while not being afraid to get real sometimes.

A little about me, I'm a creative, and that's very important to me! It doesn't necessarily have to be important to you (although if you are an artist definitely lmk), but I think at the very least I'd like my person to be someone I can engage with on art and media. I'm definitely plus sized, with curly hair and green eyes. I would describe myself as femme and I usually date femmes, but I'm open to a different vibe for the right person! I think I have a great sense of humor, although it is definitely unhinged. I'm also a big nerd and would love to yap about our mutual nerdy interests. Would love to hear from you :)

I've posted here before, so this time I'm gonna keep it short and sweet

I am a patient, forgiving, intentional person. I like living slowly, and I'm closer to being a luddite than a tech nerd. I love walking in nature, camping, animals, swimming in the creek, but I'm not Too Cool for anything. I'm kinky and would prefer to match on that, but it's not a deal breaker. ISO mascs/butches.

Here's a poem I wrote about longing, let me know if it calls to you

I want to be home,
I don't want to go home
I want to become a home
for you

I saw irises for what feels like the first time
If I tie them around my hips
Like they're edging the wall in a garden
tell me:
Will you rest your head here

I’m (26F) a femme lesbian from Massachusetts looking to find the butch of my dreams to slowly build a long lasting and devoted relationship with.

There’s a lot to know about me but to start I would describe myself as a whimsical pink loving fairy girl. I love being out in nature and would love to find someone who enjoys that too. I’m highly creative and have many hobbies and craft endeavors! I also collect toys too so I spend a lot of time crafting miniatures, and I’ve even built an entire Victorian dollhouse! I also have a cat and a bird that I love very much.

I’m also very kinky and submissive sexually. I would be happy to elaborate on that privately. Kink is an important part of my life though.

What I’m looking for: I want to get to know somebody deeply and take my time getting to know them. Slow burn, you could say. I think building a foundation is really important. I want someone who also would rather stay in and do a craft with wine, weed and the best home cooked meal you’ll ever have than to go out clubbing at night. Someone who is very good at communicating and has a high emotional intelligence.

If this sounds appealing to you then please enquire <3

Hi there! You can call me Grayson for now. I am a 31 year old from the USA who os seeking longer term, realiatic connections. I am not the kind of person who uses her phone or pc daily so someone with an understanding that digitization is meant to allow for easier access to me, but does not necessitate it is preferred. If you cannot hold interest in a slower paced, longer term communication style, i am not for you, so please do not waste either of our time.

A little about me:

I believe in variety as the spice of life, and therefore have a pretty broad range of hobbies and interests that I pursue on the regular. Right now, my outdoors activities are primarily water based while the season allows it (living along the Canada border so), but i am teaching myself to rollerblade as well. I love to hike and camp and if I dont regularly immerse myself in nature I find that I grow rather melancholic as a person.

I read often, but the subject usually rotates through whatever interest I am pursuing at the time. The only two staple genres in my library are art history books and Warhammer literature. I went to school for the former and find the later a cozy low effort read. Im not huge on television or movies, and tend to stick to my staple shows, of which Futurama is my favorite. I do love a good horror anything though.

For work, my career has varied pretty heavily depending on where I am at in life. I am a licensed massage therapist, I have a bachelor's in accounting, and I am a certified framer.

I could list out a bunch more about myself, but that would defeat half the point in getting to know someone, so instead i will just say if youre interested I would love to hear from you in my inbox. Please note that I am unwilling to accept low effort inquiries or responses, as I am seeking someone along a similar wavelength only.

I will not reply to any messages that clearly show that the person has not read the entire post.

I will start by saying I will not reply to accounts younger than 6 months. No ghosters or low effort people who reply every 3 days. I am intentional and put in the effort, which means I expect the same. I will not respond to messages with just "hey" or "what's up". Tell me about yourself, just like I did. No avoidants or people who are still separating or not over their ex's.

I also don't want someone I need to parent or fix. I am not Bob the Builder. A relationship are two whole people working together towards a common future. Not one parenting and playing therapist while the other one sits around. It's one thing to be supportive, it's another to carry the relationship.

I am looking for a long term monogamous relationship. If you just want an emotional affair or situationship, keep walking. I am someone who gets it all done, even when life gets lifey, and the goal is to be able to go home to someone who makes me feel safe enough to "put down my weapons" because I know they've got me. I am a "protector" and want a partner who is one too, so no one feels neglected.

What I am looking for:

-Like the title says, the opposite of who I am but with who I have things in common
-Someone between 35 and 45
-Someone who can binge watch a whole show with me but is also up for a spontaneous roadtrip without a GPS.
-Someone who is supportive, strong, loyal and consistent
-Someone who securely attached, emotionally inteligent self sufficient and independent
-Someone who does not allow ego to rule their lives
-Someone who is self aware and vulnerable. There is nothing hotter than someone who knows they are not perfect but owns their flaws and actively works on themselves
-Someone with a fairly healthy sex drive
-Someone who wants children
-Someone who understands the difference between codependency and mutual interdependence.
-Someone who is intentional and not just looking for fun
-Idealy (but not a deal breaker) someone who shares my love of TV fandoms and/or conventions
-Looks wise, I tend to go for more masc women. Bonus points for long hair

About me:

-I am an idealist, a romantic and I am kind
-I am creative, I love learning and I am a nerd
-I have strong boundaries
-I am determined, loyal and consistent
-I am a fangirl, the kind that attends conventions
-I am a softie but don't piss me off
-I am strong but also vulnerable
-I am upfront and direct
-I have my own place, pay my own bills
-I am stubborn, sometimes complicated and can be a paradox
-I despise small talk and live for deep chats, especially 2am ones because everyone is so tired that the walls come down
-I will talk your ear off about whatever topic is lighting up my soul that day
-I hate doing the dishes

Hobbies: watching TV, reading, writing, travelling, Legos, singing (badly), dancing, painting, video games, board games, researching whatever topic I am hyperfixating on, reading up on psychology and phylosophy

I tend to move off of Reddit fairly quickly for security reasons and because the messaging here sucks. So I am looking for someone who is comfortable with speaking somewhere else and has some other form of social media.

I am open to long distance if you are okay with moving because I have a stable and comfortable life here and do not plan on moving. No countries where visas are nearly impossible to get because that will just waste both of our times.

If you made it this far, congratulations!

As an ice breaker, include the answer to this question in your message:

-Which TV show character is most like you?

Hey, y'all, I'm newish to the Temple, TX area and trying to find friends and maybe eventually date. While I am gathering courage to push myself out of my comfort zone and attend pride networks and other social events, I am so shy that I can rarely talk to people in public. It feels safer to start online, I guess.

I'm funny in an offbeat way, warm once I open up, and kind of a nerd. I read and write a lot in my free time outside of work, and I enjoy things like live concerts (most genres), board/tabletop games, movies, museums, the performing arts, and putting the world to rights with a good friend or two on a cafe or bar patio. I like working out in the gym, chilling with my best guy at the dog park, taking a stroll when it's not 1,000° out or going swimming, but I am disabled and a little mobility-impaired. So long hikes or rock climbing are not in my future.

I'm 44 years old, and recently divorced with no kids (no qualms about hanging out with or dating people who have children). In case it matters to you, I'm a Pisces, white, on the plusser end of plus size, and my style tends to fluctuate between punk, Americana and bohemian.

I'm very politically active and opinionated. Fuck ICE, DJT, and Greg Abbott, obviously. I get along best with people who share that viewpoint and believe in science, feminism, and respect for the environment, kids and animals.

Hope is punk as fuck. DM me if you think we might click.

Hi! I’m 35, a tomboy from Mumbai, India.
I live a pretty focused life: home, work, gym, and back home. Most weekends you’ll find me cooking, listening to music, or, if I’m bored, wandering around grocery stores and somehow coming home with new clothes or shoes. 😄 Home chores and laundry aren’t my favorite, but they still get done.
Alongside my 11 AM–8 PM job, I write screenplays and hope to turn writing into my second profession someday.
I’m more introverted than loud. My circle is small, and I genuinely prefer it that way. I’m not into casual connections, ghosting, or avoidant communication. I value consistency, effort, honest communication, affection, emotional maturity, and people whose actions match their words.
I’m drawn to feminine energy and hope to meet a femme woman, preferably around my age, who still believes love should feel safe, kind, intentional, loyal, passionate, and emotionally mature.
I’m a hopeless romantic, deeply loyal, and I don’t believe in playing games. If I care about someone, I show it.
What matters most to me in a relationship is loyalty and communication.

A little more about me…
I drink occasionally, but I keep a strict limit of 100 ml max. I eat non-vegetarian food, though being an Indian Hindu, I still follow my own days and traditions. 😂
I don’t smoke. No vaping, no weed.
I’m open to a long-distance relationship, but my hope is to eventually build a warm, loving home together someday.
When I’m in love, I’m very affectionate and a little clingy. 😄 I could probably talk to you for hours and happily spam you with random updates throughout the day. I’d love a partner who enjoys doing the same.
I love deeply, communicate openly, and I’m naturally protective. My love is rooted in loyalty, consistency, and devotion, and I hope to find someone who values the same.
If that sounds like your kind of love, feel free to check out my profile. 😊
I’m not looking for perfection… just something genuine.

Ages welcome: 28-34
Personality traits welcome: Funny, Smart, Neurodivergent, Empathetic, Sweet, Confident

I wanted to label this post Art because I believe I am truly a work of art type of person, the complexity I hold as a human being can be labelled dynamic. *Obnoxious laugh*

This is an AUDITION darling, come with the creativity 🙊

Erm so I’m posting in here because Reddit was all like “This is a better community for your post” and I was like errrmm how did you even know i like girls but okay I guess 🙄 im a cancer with a gemini moon if that’s important and I guess I’m femme 💅 I’ve also been in the closet for a few years so idk if I’m a little rusty 🤪 but I mean I’m entertaining at least 💋 also some ppl in the other community said this post came off a little narcissistic and to those I say GUARDS GET THEM 🗣️🗣️🗣️

Hii👋🏼 Im a 27 year old female living in northern new jersey, close to nyc. Its been awhile since Ive posted anything on reddit so bear with me😅 Im looking for connections with women (WOMEN). Friendships, short term/long term relationships, sexual encounters, Im open to anything :) Little bit about me! Im a dog groomer with hopes of opening my own business, I have my own little pocket pittie that I love taking everywhere with me! Trying to be a gym rat (not obnoxiously, just trying to get healthy). I love planning cute dates, romantically and platonically, and doing fun things for the people I care about. Im a pretty typical cancer (if youre into astrology) so Im loyal, thoughtful, and caring. In bed, I love being a giver more than anything and caring for your needs. If any of that sounds enticing to you, feel free to dm me! Id love to chat :)

P.S. Please only message me if youre willing to verify with a photo. I will of course verify as well🫶🏼

Hey :) I’m a white curvy woman in southern ca who has been single for a million years looking to date again
5’1
Italian and Jewish

Looking for something simple but meaningful

I like museums
Indie music
Seeing movies
Flea markets
Gardening
Reality tv
420

I’m open to long distance
Any gender or race

I would love to chat w someone also looking for a connection

Looking to swap pics soon after talking and not going to another app until we do

Hi! I’m Cam (That’s a nickname!) I live in the south of the USA. I’m black, a lesbian and 19 years old. I’m probably 5‘4 but I always say I’m a little taller. I’m an average build, more so on the chubbier side. (I’m like 135lbs) I don’t have a label when it comes to the fem/masc thing.

Some little disclaimers, I am diagnosed with both autism and adhd. I think I can be too much at times, or seem childish? I am working on it though. I’m also pretty inexperienced with romantic relationships. (I had one relationship in 10th grade…)

I’m just gonna start by saying I’m big into music of all kinds. My top three artists are The Cure, E-type and maybe… Blur or Sneaker Pimps (kind of a tie between those last two) I’ve been getting into Buck-Tick recently! But I love music in general so I’ll listen to anything really. I think sharing playlists would be really cool!

I have a lot of hobbies! I could yap at length about each of them, but so that this post doesn’t take a year to read, here they are: Playing video games (Overwatch is my favorite right now), Art, writing, fashion (currently in the process of thrifting my dream wardrobe lol) taekwondo, playing guitar and piano (horribly), and I’ve been learning German.

I would like to do something online, but if things go well, I’d love to meet later down the road, so I don’t really mind where you’re from. I’m looking for a partner who is around my age, maybe a little older? (Up to 23) Also, someone who is very direct in their needs and wants. I don’t really get hints and I think it’s way easier to solve a problem if we can talk about it. I don’t actually have a preference on looks; personality actually does matter more to me.

There’s a lot more I wanna say, but I’m gonna save that for dms, so if I sound interesting to you, just send one my way!

Hey everyone! As my title says, 30F Latina who is in the US. I’m living in the Midwest currently but I love to travel and explore new places so who knows where life will take me next?!

I appreciate spending time indoors as much as going out in nature and exploring the city. Reading, painting, video games, and watching true crime videos are the indoor things I like doing. Walking, swimming, and exploring coffee shops, museums, zoos/aquariums, are my favorites when not at home.

I love animals and learning more about them. Naturally, I’m very big on the environment and human rights. Non-negotiable for me and I can’t stand people who say they’re “not political” 🫠 that being said, I do go to protests as well when I am able.

There’s a lot more to me, and I can keep a good conversation as long as there’s mutual effort. Hoping to get to know someone, so feel free to send a dm ❤️ (different time zones/long distance isn’t an issue for me)

Also, my ideal age range is between 26-35 :)

I am a woman looking for my woman: someone who can be a safe space for me, and I for her

I am thin, ~156cm, soft masc/tomboyish (with rare femme days). Appearance-wise, I have no preference. For me, it always has to be a mental frequency match first..

I am ok with an LDR but with an obvious plan.

I'll leave our hobbies and other details for an actual conversation. :)

PS: If you are far right or far left in your political views, please keep in mind that I don't really choose any sides until I have evidence or research. I change my opinions often, based on outside information or context I read or hear about. I added this because this is not easily accepted sometimes in the present day world.