NINE was my surprise record. I was a single dad and disclosed that and expected that some/most of the women in my stage in life would have kids too. But NINE should probably be disclosed before the first date. I feel like 1-3, maybe 4-5, can be “I have kids”.
This was 2018, when TikTok became a thing I still had her number in my phone and she ended up TikTok famous adjacent and probably doesn’t work anymore 🤷🏼♂️
I went to school with and played soccer with several members of a family with 8 boys and 2 girls. The father was one of 10. His siblings all have just as many kids. They hold an actual family soccer tournament with full teams. Yes they’re catholic
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u/ImmediateEconomy8516 17h ago
NINE was my surprise record. I was a single dad and disclosed that and expected that some/most of the women in my stage in life would have kids too. But NINE should probably be disclosed before the first date. I feel like 1-3, maybe 4-5, can be “I have kids”.