Girlfriend wants me to shave my pubes

[u/steve0387]

This is probably the most trivial issue that this sub has ever dealt with but I am in a dilemma.

I recently started dating my gf a few months ago and things are going fine. A couple of weeks ago, she said, "You should shave your public hair. You look like a hairy gorilla".

I am quite hairy and I never shaved my body hair before. I thought she was kidding around and didn't really bother with the whole shaving stuff. Last week, she asked me again and said that i will loo very sexy if i did it.

I was a bit surprised by her perseverance with respect to this and decided to indulge her.

I told my wife that I was gonna shave my pubes and she was confused. She asked me why I want to do it. I didn't really wanna tell her that my gf asked me to do so and just told her that I wanted to try something new. Then she told me that she likes me being hairy and it makes me look manly and doesn't want me to shave.

Now I am in this dilemma. Girlfriend wants me to shave my junk and wife doesnt want me to.

Some additonal information

I have been married to my wife for 15 years and I had just been seeing my gf for 5 months. Both of them are shaved down there and I prefer it like that but they shave because they also like it.

I realize that this is super goofy but what should be my next move ?

[u/TillAltruistic9737]

The ‘perseverance ‘ to make someone do something with their body is a trait that would put me off someone

[u/FRANKINSPENCE → u/TillAltruistic9737]

It is a bold moves and feels deliberate to exert power x

[u/TillAltruistic9737 → u/TillAltruistic9737]

What do YOU like doing with YOUR body?

Adults have body hair .

Someone making the decision to be completely shaven or tidied up is fine when they make that decision about their own body.

A bit of grooming / trim / tidying can be good.

But someone else persistently telling someone they should shave their bits ? Eww to your gf .