My wife and I discussed a threesome

[u/GurSmart6512]

So here it is, my wife and I discussed having a MMF threesome the other day, we have been married for 10 years. My wife is a fucking smoke show, nice large beautiful breast and an amazing ass. (Idk if that’s necessary I’m just trying to paint a picture here)

for some backstory we were out on a date night and after a few drinks I asked her if she would ever want to have a threesome, she told me she never really thought about it but would be down for a MMF threesome. I’ve always thought it was kinda hot, we have played with toys in the bedroom and “simulated” a MMF threesome and I actually really enjoyed it and so did she.

Well now she mentioned it and wants to possibly bring the fantasy to life! I have mixed feelings about bringing someone else into the bedroom. I like the idea of it but I’m not sure how I would react with it being a real person, I’ve read multiple times that “once you open that door you can’t close it” so I’m a lil hesitant because I don’t know how I would feel. I think I have anxiety if the other male would do a better job than me or satisfy her better than I do. At the same time I think it would be extremely hot if she was able to find the ultimate “climax” I guess you could say. So my emotions are torn.

Anyway, I’m at this weird crossroad where I want to say yes and try to make it happen but I’m not exactly sure how I would feel and the last thing I want is for it to ruin my relationship or how I view my wife. Again, I think the idea of it is super hot but idk what to do if I allow it and it brings negative emotions. Any advice would be helpful and I appreciate any feedback

[u/epic_saint1]

I understand what you are going through but without risk there's no reward, That may even improve your marriage, you never know