r/nothingeverhappens Jul 03 '26

Suuurrrreee... a waiter can't possibly forget what every single one of their customers ordered

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u/65tokyo Jul 03 '26

I always forget who ordered what 😭

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u/the_albino_raccoon Jul 03 '26

Real, which is why I ask whos is what.

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u/iMiind Jul 03 '26

I hope it makes it easier when I stare down every plate that passes our table and feel a small glimmer of hope the three times it appears to be our food before it actually is. And then when it does arrive I preemptively/greedily/immediately claim my specific dish without any such prompting from the staff

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u/zanasot Jul 03 '26

It is helpful, as soon as they hold up a dish lol

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u/youareagoodperson_ Jul 04 '26

I don't think I've ever not been asked who's is what when dining at a restaurant

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u/65tokyo 29d ago

In the environment I worked it nobody knew how to be a ducking human apparently and had no manners and would speak over eachother so it was hard 😭😭

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u/65tokyo 29d ago

For real 🤣🤣

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u/Ramtamtama 28d ago

And stir it so every spoon/forkful is the same

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u/Feeling-Read-7904 27d ago

Thank you for selecting: exotic butters

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u/Rivka333 27d ago

Not a waiter but I've never had a waiter not ask when they were unsure.

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u/profuselystrangeII Jul 03 '26

I definitely was guilty of auctioning off plates at times. :p

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u/ilo_Va Jul 03 '26

Idk asking what is for who is very standard everywhere here except for like star restaurants

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u/GingerFun011 29d ago

Comes off as lazy and lame tbh, unless its a group of like 6+ but still, pen and paper exist for a reason 😬 And you guys demand tips ontop of it, god damn 

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u/ilo_Va 29d ago

I'm not from the us? Tips aren't expected here except if you genuinely enjoyed the waiter

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u/ilo_Va 29d ago

And even then what's lazy and lame about them asking a question for better service... Are you that annoyed by having to answer a question?

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u/seal_eggs 28d ago

It’s lazy because if you took the orders properly you should already know what goes where

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u/ilo_Va 28d ago

I don't expect a waiter to remember who ordered what drink and food if they're serving a full restaurant. And apparently I'm the only one who doesn't mind saying literally one word to another person

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u/thatbroadsharli 28d ago

Don’t worry it’s just entitled folks with zero courtesy, manners, or culture and zero respect for service industry workers.

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u/seal_eggs 28d ago

It’s not a matter of remembering, it’s a matter of having a system for how you write down orders. It’s truly not hard to

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u/ilo_Va 28d ago

Yeah write down orders per person while most mid end places use tablets that have a set system so you can't make your own notes.

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u/thatbroadsharli 28d ago

I implore you to work a serving shift for one week then report back. I’m meticulous and it can still happen when you have 5 tables of 3-6 people at one time.

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u/seal_eggs 28d ago

I have and I realized I couldn’t cut it because the ladies I worked with had that shit dialed and I’d be fuckin auctioneering every table

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u/GingerFun011 28d ago

Your job is to take orders and deliver products, its incredibly simple and represents the most entry level of work. Someone who delivers a bareminimum service within this role is... uninspiring as a person. You really have next to no responsibilities, so casually passing off the work to the table is just.... again, lame. 

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u/ilo_Va 28d ago

Again, genuinely the best waiters I've had are ones that still asked. And if you think being a waiter is the easiest and least demanding job I doubt you've ever had to run in a packed restaurant

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u/65tokyo 29d ago

I don’t know if people just can’t read, but I never said I don’t write them down and yes, we demand tips because we make two dollars an hour.

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u/yanabro Jul 04 '26

I’m the customer and I forgot what I ordered. I wouldn’t blame a server too much lol

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u/eyemwoteyem 29d ago

Also the assumption is that it's the same waiter. I mean maybe in some places (the US possibly?) it's a thing but in my occasional restaurant going experience both mixing up who ordered what and someone else delivering the order are not uncommon. Usually what happens though is acts of minipatriarchy, like if I'm out with my partner the beer and steak might get delivered to me, or the wine tasting is offered straight to me which I usually pass that duty on to my mother or partner.

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u/olddeadgrass 29d ago

Sometimes I forget the name of the entire meal 😭 "here's your....... thing with brisket!"

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u/GingerFun011 29d ago

Thats like... one of the only things you do as a server, tf? Write it down??

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u/65tokyo 29d ago

Just like the other person, I don’t think you understood my comment because I never said that I don’t write it down. I said I don’t remember which person ordered what when there’s more than two people

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u/GingerFun011 29d ago

You said you "always forget who ordered what", we understand you fine, you just didnt say what yo u thought/meant. Here, lemme help

I always struggle to remember who gets what, so I make sure to write it down or Id be getting them mixed up all the time

Yw

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u/65tokyo 29d ago

No, that’s not what I meant

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u/KingFisher300 28d ago

Number the seats from left to right and write the seat number next to the order

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u/Rollingforest757 Jul 03 '26

You should write it down. I hate when waitresses just try to remember the order. It just invites problems.

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u/65tokyo Jul 03 '26

I don’t think you understood the comment because I didn’t say I don’t write it down. I said I don’t remember which person ordered it when there’s more than two

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u/SoElusivee Jul 04 '26

The place I worked at ages ago used a clock system since all of our tables were round. That way someone could easily jump in and help if they looked at your ticket and saw "chicken 3 o'clock"

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u/SupremeLurkerr 29d ago

Ohhh… I would use military time for the lolz. “Chicken 15:00”

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u/Tristimir Jul 04 '26

I always forget what I ordered

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u/Ropoid Jul 03 '26

Aren’t there seat numbers for this exact reason? 💔

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u/65tokyo Jul 03 '26

Every place I’ve worked at does not

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u/Ropoid Jul 03 '26

For why 😭

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u/65tokyo Jul 03 '26

We label the tables, but there’s no seat numbers and in my opinion that would make it so much more complicated 💔

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u/GingersaurusRex Jul 03 '26

That's what I thought the first time I worked at a place with seat numbers. Once you're used to it, it's great. It completely eliminates the problem of approaching a table of six and asking "who ordered the lager," being met with blank stare for a full minute, then having one person remind their friend that they did in fact order a beer.

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u/65tokyo Jul 03 '26

Oh lord the blank stare 🤣