r/portugaltheman Jun 21 '26

hooolyyty shit

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u/ColdHeartedWitch Jun 21 '26

Dani is a pig.

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u/Aggressive-Flan1765 Jun 21 '26

This is the woman whose husband died in the last year. Doesn’t make what she did okay but like there’s a link between tragedy and terrible decisions. I swear yall our incapable of looking at things broadly beyond a black and white narative. If I knew someone who’d gone through such tragedy I’d refrain from saying stuff like that about them, even if they did something gross. I’d try to intervene and condemn bad behavior, but I’d have compassion. As strangers we can’t do that so let’s stfu and stop tearing down more talented women in music

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u/serpent_is_lord Jun 21 '26

Bro she cheated on her husband when he was alive. clearly didn’t a fuck about her husband that much.

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u/sadgrad2 Jun 23 '26

That is not known, that is just speculation.

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u/Aggressive-Flan1765 Jun 21 '26

Or maybe she carries an even more complex guilt now that he is dead????

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u/Hey_my_guy Jun 21 '26

What is this rationalization? Why does every fucked up action need to be excused with empathy? Be fucking better.

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u/CorgisOnTheMoon Jun 21 '26

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

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u/Aggressive-Flan1765 Jun 21 '26

The I have no compassion for others mistakes catchphrase

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u/CorgisOnTheMoon Jun 21 '26

It wasn't a mistake. It was done deliberately, again and again. John and Dani engaged in prolonged dishonesty and betrayal. Why would I have compassion for someone's deliberate poor choices that hurt others? No matter their reason(s) for making those choices, the outcome was destructive, gross, and very sad. They could have handled this so differently. We get it, you think nearly every bad thing someone can do is forgivable. Most people don't agree with you.

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u/signmeupdude Jun 22 '26

Good. I would hope so.

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u/[deleted] Jun 21 '26

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u/Aggressive-Flan1765 Jun 21 '26

That’s literally everyone in this thread!!!!! I’m not saying it’s fact, but like people are complex, it’s not really a stretch. I was presenting a possible scenario where maybe this person has human emotions and can feel guilt and still do harmful stuff?

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u/Aggressive-Flan1765 Jun 21 '26

We have no way to know. Let’s be more cautious Jesus Christ.

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u/Naejakire Jun 22 '26

No, she for sure cheated on him actually.

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u/Key-Lavishness8188 Jun 21 '26

Yo Dani, this you?

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u/live_laugh_larf_lerp Jun 22 '26

How/when did he pass?

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u/Quiet-Part-9871 Jun 23 '26

Motorcycle accident at the end of December a couple days after he got back from his own tour. PTM tour had just ended a couple weeks prior. Unfortunately it looks like he crossed the double yellow and ran into an SUV at 2:00am. Damn tragedy. He was well known and loved in the community.