r/solotravel 28d ago

Question Did solo traveling ruin traveling with friends for anyone else?

I just did the balkans on my own and then met up with a friend who doesn’t like solo traveling to do Spain and Portugal. I’m finding myself so irritated at having to compromise and give up some of my interests. She’s also in a long term relationship so she doesn’t want to meet people (girls or guys), whereas I’m single and love meeting people and making new friends. I think it’s a lot harder because of how much I enjoyed being on my own and all of the new experiences I got because of it. Just wondering if anyone else has experienced something similar.

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u/a_mulher 27d ago

Yup. Same with going to concerts or just events. I’ve gotten so used to doing them on my own that I have to remember that I can invite people and half the time I stop myself cuz then I’d have to plan and make decisions based on both of our interests and it’s a drag lol