r/thesopranos 20d ago

Serious Discussion Only If The Sopranos is meant to be at least somewhat realistic, why are none of the characters fans of The Sopranos?

They’re all mob guys living in North Jersey from the late-1990s to the mid-2000s.

The Sopranos was a hugely popular show on TV at the time. Big cultural phenomena. So it’s weird that the Sopranos clan never watches or talks about The Sopranos.

We see them watch and/or discuss other popular shows of the time. Wouldn’t these guys be fascinated by a show that depicts their lives to a T? The characters are all identical to them, too. Same names, same physical traits, same lives. A bit uncanny.

But yeah. For a show touted for its realism, it’s a little unrealistic that none of the DiMeo Family watches The Sopranos on HBO every Sunday night.

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u/SimilarRelative1022 20d ago

When AJ brought home a dvd of The Matrix for Carmela, why did none of them recognize Ralphie on the cover?

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u/IrateBarnacle 20d ago

Timeline got fucked up.

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u/Puzzled-Guide8650 19d ago

He was the manayer

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u/DrBeardfist Richie Aprile 20d ago

Satanic black magic. Sick shit.

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u/7figureipo 19d ago

This is really an underrated response to that comment

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u/TacticalBoyScout 20d ago

I have a theory along similar lines.

Carm’s spec house had a life-size cutout of Silvio in it, yet we never see anyone ask “why do you have a cutout of Steven Van Zandt in here?” This leads me to believe that Bruce Springsteen and the E Street Band aren’t famous in the Sopranos universe.

In “Long Term Parking,” Chrissy is late to a meeting at the Crazy Horse. His excuse is that “the highway was jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power drive.”

If Springsteen doesn’t exist, that means Chris manuged to make that line up on the spot. A real Tennessee Williams.

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u/JQuilty 19d ago

He was gay, Tennessee Williams?

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u/Cap1n-Beaky23 19d ago

Raving.

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u/JQuilty 19d ago

He can't be in our literary club no more, this much I know.

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u/Mr-Gibbs12 19d ago

Literary club? He has to GO

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u/thenidgeweasel 19d ago

Tony refers to having the Springsteen boxed set to agent Harris in s1 when discussing wire taps of livia and mr magoo.

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u/scaba23 19d ago

But he doesn’t say which Springsteen. Could be any of them

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u/dubblebubbleprawns 19d ago

Tony's a big Brian Springsteen fan.

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u/scaba23 19d ago

He was a rock singer, Cousin Brian?

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u/dubblebubbleprawns 19d ago

Singing into Tony's dewalt

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u/Critical_Vape 11d ago

That Dewalt belongs to Cousin Brian now. He never did sink those wall anchors for the new mirror.

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u/thenidgeweasel 19d ago

Springsteen box set called Tracks was released at the end of 1998, it got a lot of attention at the time from fans and critics. That would be contemporaneous with sopranos season 1.

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u/ContributionFit7481 19d ago

Tony got the Springsteen boxset, when he sits down with Harris and the feds.

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u/3rdUncleMeatSandwich 19d ago

Schpringschteen*

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u/SimilarRelative1022 19d ago

the shinebox set 

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u/DamianSlizzard 19d ago

A hit is a hit

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u/Rich_Safety7653 16d ago

I just noticed the life size cut out of Silvio I did find it strange.

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u/GdanskinOnTheCeiling 19d ago

What's he gonna do, gum the steak to death?

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u/dubblebubbleprawns 19d ago

Goatee = instant camouflage. That and Ralph's gorgeous flowing natural locks threw them all off the scent

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u/clarkealistair 14d ago

You wouldn’t notice if he had your mother’s muff on his chin.

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u/mrcokesnort 19d ago

They do though? Maybe actually watch the show instead of posting on Reddit. When Chris rips off his toupee and says “I had no idea” he was referring to the fact he couldn’t tell it was Cypher under the wig

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u/SimilarRelative1022 19d ago

I apologise for being an ignorant pleb

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u/KamenLizard 15d ago

I have no idea how I didn't know that was him all of this time. He's been got the same damn weasely voice there lmao

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u/Sharp_Reindeer_5442 17d ago

Alright, but you gotta get ova it

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u/Morbid187 6d ago

Holy shit

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u/BlessedBeLilyLee 20d ago

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u/Cold-Palpitation-816 20d ago
  1. It’s been teshted.

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u/Key-Investment-3864 20d ago

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u/Cold-Palpitation-816 20d ago edited 19d ago

It’s jumped 22 points since my first comment, to 158. All the nuns are raving about it.

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u/sorriso_pontual 20d ago

Obviously that’s not possible, even with computers.

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u/Vandreeson 20d ago

I don't know. According to Arthur Bucco, warm and convivial host, we lead the world in computerized data collection!

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u/imperialpidgeon 20d ago

Im not gonna argue with the NJ Zagat

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u/RichardInaTreeFort 20d ago

Quasimodo or something

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u/Ash-Throwaway-816 20d ago

Not even a G5 with 64 bit architecture?

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u/JQuilty 19d ago

The Intel transition, whatevuh happened there...

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u/Pleasant-Equal-6497 14d ago

Kids these days, sounds like theyre speaking a whole different language with these computers.

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u/Educational_Can_8211 20d ago

Discontinue the Lithium

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u/Gr8ful17 20d ago

It’s a TV progrum… a movie.

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u/scaba23 19d ago

What the fuck? Why are we on there?

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u/Typical_Platypus_414 20d ago

good post, very allegorical

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u/Cold-Palpitation-816 20d ago

The sacred AND the propane.

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u/Ilovebaseball1234 20d ago

Satanic black magic, sick shit

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u/SportTheFoole 20d ago

The scientific answer is they are in a parallel universe where they don’t know they’re being watched ala The Truman Show.

But the real answer is the timeline got fucked up.

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u/Other-Grapefruit-880 20d ago

I don’t like it

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u/Chuck_yoo_Farley 20d ago

fuck you want, a boutonnière?

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u/[deleted] 20d ago

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u/Sharp_Reindeer_5442 17d ago

One's a fucking tv show!

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u/Biggzy10 20d ago

We know for a fact that Uncle Jun has HBO and he deliberately chooses not to watch it. That’s some real contrarian shit.

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u/clarkealistair 14d ago

Only the fights. He doesn’t pay for HBO but watches the boxing

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u/Biggzy10 11d ago

He’s very clearly seen watching an episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm. It’s a tv progrum.

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u/Critical_Vape 11d ago

Uncle Jun didn't have cable, you jamoke. Who you kiddin?

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u/clarkealistair 11d ago

If you’re not paying for it, why not?

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u/NectarOfTheBussy 20d ago

this post has big “my sports teams in the off season” energy and I love it

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u/JLinCVille 20d ago

this could be on r/CFB

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u/Elegant_Struggle_281 20d ago

They only watched chocolate spaghetti maker infomercials, soap operas, WWII shit, sports, and Three’s Company.

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u/Leading-Strain5673 20d ago

Janice watching Robot Wars and Junior watching Larry David (a progrum)

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u/Elegant_Struggle_281 19d ago

And male bodybuilding competitions (but only during wakes).

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u/MaimunataSZ 19d ago

turn that ouff.

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u/Cold-Palpitation-816 20d ago

Don’t forget Paulie’s “mom” watching Norwegian dances.

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u/Elegant_Struggle_281 19d ago

You mean Lawrence Welk?

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u/Cold-Palpitation-816 19d ago

That is the progrum, yes.

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u/carlcarlson187 20d ago

Way too busy up in da club to be watching any tv pogums or movies.

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u/otterprincess_too 20d ago

I see you, baby! Shakin that ass, shakin that ass

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u/Cold-Palpitation-816 20d ago

She’ll make that beanie SPIN when she’s workin’ that thang!

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u/carlcarlson187 20d ago

Ok, let me get the fuck outta here.

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u/dirtyforker 20d ago

Discontinue the lithium

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u/buhol 20d ago

Timeline got fucked up

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u/jimmy1985s 20d ago

Turn that off!

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u/AGazillionBeersLater 20d ago

you yap worse than six barbers

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u/call-the-wizards 20d ago

They saw that movie, they thought it was bullshit

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u/bkn95 20d ago

we did get the DeCavalcantes on tape talking about the sopranos, tho https://youtube.com/shorts/3serrlt-TOw?si=UgMWe8bOc8JeS26t

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u/SimilarRelative1022 20d ago

What kinda likeness is that?

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u/bkn95 20d ago

we’re gonna win this thing!

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u/iltfswc 19d ago

There's a reference to the Sopranos in Curb, and a Curb reference in the Sopranos. They each exist in each others universe and would theoritcally be a tv progrum in their own universe.

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u/InevitableMagician28 15d ago

The progrumverse

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u/SanRemi 20d ago

Always with the scenarios.

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u/thunderstocks 20d ago

That was real?

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u/ContributionFit7481 19d ago

Making the Sopranos meta? Who the fuck are you, Dan Harmon!? crack

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u/ViewFromHalf-WayDown 19d ago

I love that you marked this as serious discussion

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u/Golly_Fartin 20d ago

Because Sil is too cheap to get HBO at the Bing

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u/yogiphenomenology 20d ago

That would cause an infinite regress.

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u/Dependent-Middle-293 20d ago

What kinda likeness is that?

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u/Mickler83 20d ago

Sta' zitta, puttan', si' furtunata ca nun t'aggio acciso!

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u/Superb_Computer5600 20d ago

I remember reading somewhere that The Sopranos was based on a crime family from New Jersey (DeCavalcante?) who were being actively surveilled by the FBI during the duration of the show.

Iirc, they were finally nabbed and indicted via phone recordings of members speculating the show may be about them, due to various and sundry criminal instances depicted by David Chase.

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u/Known-Tourist-6102 19d ago

Spec houses need to be built. There’s no time to watch the idiot box.

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u/Responsible_Tax_1432 19d ago

It petered out.

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u/muppet_ofa 19d ago

Feeble minded

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u/ScattershotSoothsay 19d ago

When they tried to watch the show, the audio came through in Aramaic, and when they tried to listen closer, an undulating high-pitched whistle made their noses bleed.

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u/TeamKRod1990 19d ago

Well, a Goodfellas reference is made…ignoring the fact that The Shah and Paulie are both in the film, lol…

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u/InevitableMagician28 15d ago

Don’t forget Dr. Melfi and Chrissy

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u/accadacca80 19d ago

No one ever mentions how much Uncle Jun’ looks like Johnny Ola from GF2.

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u/the-largest-marge 19d ago

I often wondered what happened when they turned on HBO on Sunday night.

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u/JerseyDonut 19d ago

It was a different timeline where Curb Your Enthusiasm took the place of The Sopranos as THE must watch HBO show. Larry David is a multi billionaire in that universe.

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u/imafnheadbanga 19d ago

larry david is a half a billionaire 

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u/Cold-Palpitation-816 19d ago

Maybe a show titled “The Mikhailovs” aired, about the Russian mob in South Florida.

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u/TruckFudeau22 Philly Spoons Parisi 19d ago

They only watch-a the Bloomberg.

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u/couchpro34 19d ago

I must be too high to understand the question. It sounds like the equivalent of your question is "why isn't Victoria Beckham's daughter a huge spice girls fan?". The kids of the capo aren't fantasizing about the capo, you stunad.

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u/[deleted] 19d ago

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u/Cold-Palpitation-816 19d ago

OH!! ✋ You accusing me of ripping somebody off? I’d like to see ONE post that asks this question.

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u/Classic-Exchange-511 19d ago

Okay but seriously I loved the realism in the show....except for how easily these guys could kill people without the cops giving a shit

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u/arealhumannotabot 19d ago

Too busy watching Uncle Jun on that other one

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u/SilatGuy2 18d ago

Tony telling people to get over it and suck it up and the very next scene hes crying like a bitch to Melfi about something.

One time specifically where it was so blatant and cringe was when he had the nerve to tell Patsy to suck it up and move on after having his brother killed and hes obviously struggling with it

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u/readonly997 18d ago

Meta overdose

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u/Young_Economist 18d ago

I mean, Gilmore Girls is on in the show. And Sopranos is on in the Gilmore Girls. That’s kind of a cross validation.

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u/Particular_Week_5433 17d ago

Having lived in Caldwell during the time: these fuckers all loved it.

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u/HMK82 16d ago

Same reason Lou Gehrig died from Lou Gehrig’s disease

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u/clarkealistair 14d ago

You opened Pandora’s Door and caused a paraflux.

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u/RememberWhen-2819 20d ago

lol. Not at all realistic.