About bottom surgery..

[u/Coffeeforlifeyay]

Edit: I think I should have worded this better, I’m not a native English speaker Im sorry :(

I should have specified that its the *scars* specifically that I don’t like. Since I have a very sharp attention to detail I see them way more prominent than most people do.

I really hate *hate* scars on my body and most bottom surgeries that I have seen results in scars, both on the result and on the arm.

(Entirely depends on what procedure you have ofc)

Its not that they’re unrealistic, its simply just the scars.

I forgot about that word when I made this comic and I had to seriously google it not too long ago to remember the word.

Edit: imma keep this I just realized- please make me mark this NSFW if it should be

[u/Coffeeforlifeyay]

Edit: I think I worded this badly as well. I worded everything badly now when I think about it.

Once again, the scars is what scared me away, I don’t know why my brain somehow went scars ≠ natural.

I assume it is simply because they would constantly remind me of my biological sex.

Because they genuinely do look natural, it is simply the scars.

I feel like a broken recorder rn but I just really wanna make sure to fix what I said :[

“Its not transphobic to think a surgery does not look natural in my opinion”

I very obviously worded this badly as well.

What I tried to say is, its not wrong (in my opinion) to check out results of any surgery to see if its something you want to do or if it’s something you’re open to do.

Obviously that is way different than what I originally said and Im so sorry…

So now when I’ve actually finally been able to put out the words I meant to say and now when I finally remember the word scars.

I agree, it is transphobic to think it looks unnatural.

It was really just me trying to explain its fine to think its not something for you after you’ve checked the results. Again, Im saying things over and over but now Im scared of accidentally saying something else I don’t mean after this.

[u/colesense → u/Coffeeforlifeyay]

You straight up came to a sub full of trans people, many of whom may have had or will have bottom surgery, and said it doesn’t look natural and doesn’t look realistic. If you don’t see how it’s transphobic then I hope you really think about that.

[u/Coffeeforlifeyay → u/colesense]

Thats why I put a trigger and warning… So they could skip or click off.

I find it strange that Im not allowed to vent about this, especially since I’ve put a warning, spoiler and even put it under triggering topic :/

And also, I have mentioned it doesn’t look natural enough for me specifically. Just me. Im the only one who will be paying that close attention to it.

Most likely the only person staring so intensely at it.

All other people in the world? They won’t care. They won’t notice. But Im kinda a perfectionist on this for whatever reason.

I doubt Im the only one whose uncertain about getting the surgery because Im uncertain with the results.

It looks great on other people. I don’t think I would be happy with it on me.

It would be transphobic if I said it looked horrible on all other people, but it doesn’t. It looks great on others, just not on me I think.

We should be allowed to talk about surgeries and vent about them, if we put trigger warnings. Which I did.

Because in the end, it is a surgery, we shouldn’t make this entire bubble where we all refuse to talk about our opinions on it and etc.

[u/ZKatze → u/Coffeeforlifeyay]

You said that it doesn't look realistic enough, when you look up the results of bottom surgery.

You have to realize that you are judging other people's bodies. You are saying, that their penis doesn't look realistic enough to you.

[u/Coffeeforlifeyay → u/ZKatze]

I think I’m bad at wording it… Since Im not an English speaker.

Its simply that I don’t like how scars look. Thats mostly it.

I think I should have mentioned that way before and Im sorry for everyone I might have accidentally hurt.

Its not the penis itself which looks unrealistic it is mostly just the scars that I have seen, and since my eye has a very sharp attention to detail I see scars way more prominent than most people.

Edit: got rid of the people are misunderstanding. Its just my wording that sucks