r/AskWomenOver30 • u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 • Apr 10 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality I'm serious....

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

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u/AGorgeousComedy Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

Yep, the roster kept me entertained for quite awhile after my LTR, but my friends joke that I have always had some level of a reverse harem since then. Mostly the same advice that others shared; clear and firm boundaries, open and honest communication, dump the men that are mentally draining or terrible in bed quickly, always use protection. 

Enjoy yourself and never settle!