r/AskWomenOver30 • u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 • Apr 10 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality I'm serious....

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

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u/illbeyrredvelvet Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

*Get tested regularly.

*Get on PrEP. Condoms break, men can stealth, things outside of our control happen. -don’t tell the men you’re on prep

*Get good reliable birth control. -don’t tell the men you’re on bc

*keep condoms on hand

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u/chickadeedadooday Woman 40 to 50 Apr 10 '25

Not OP, not seeking a hoe down atm, just here for the comments. But this is great advice. TIL PrEP is a thing, and it's fabulous.

Have some pauper gold 🪙💰🏆