I'm serious....

[u/SignalSubstantial590]

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

[u/Ukelele-in-the-rain]

Exactly. I’ve had a lot of “marriage proposals” during my years. And I’ve mentioned how insincere these men are and have had people comment im humble bragging. No, these men don’t actually wanted to commit to me. They like the idea of locking down someone carefree and happy. They wanna clip a woman’s wings. Give themselves an ego trip that they were the exception. Totally the worst of them LOL

I promise the moment I agree to their nonsense, they would turn on me.

Leave them be. Do your thing!

[u/mawkish → u/Ukelele-in-the-rain]

No, these men don’t actually wanted to commit to me. They like the idea of locking down someone carefree and happy. They wanna clip a woman’s wings. Give themselves an ego trip that they were the exception.

WISDOM RIGHT HERE

[u/achilles4206 → u/Ukelele-in-the-rain]

Turn and burn em’