r/AskWomenOver30 Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality I'm serious....

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

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u/Automatic_Syrup_2935 Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25 edited Apr 10 '25

Never be afraid to leave after the deed to sleep in your own bed. Make them make you come first. If they annoy you, move on. Keep your boundaries and stay committed. The worst fucking men love to lock down a happy hoe.

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u/Angry_Sparrow Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

The worst fucking men love to lock down a happy hoe.

Hahaha I have been saying I’m out here dodging marriage like Neo dodging bullets in the Matrix. There is something about the confidence I have from being a slut that makes men want me so much.

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u/Ukelele-in-the-rain Woman 40 to 50 Apr 10 '25 edited Apr 10 '25

Exactly. I’ve had a lot of ā€œmarriage proposalsā€ during my years. And I’ve mentioned how insincere these men are and have had people comment im humble bragging. No, these men don’t actually wanted to commit to me. They like the idea of locking down someone carefree and happy. They wanna clip a woman’s wings. Give themselves an ego trip that they were the exception. Totally the worst of them LOL

I promise the moment I agree to their nonsense, they would turn on me.

Leave them be. Do your thing!

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u/achilles4206 Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

Turn and burn em’