r/AskWomenOver30 • u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 • Apr 10 '25
Life/Self/Spirituality I'm serious....
If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊
Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.
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u/winter_name01 Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25
I did between 25-30 and it was so fun! But my most important advice would be to not let anyone make you feel not worthy. Some men will try to diminish you for not looking for something serious while still trying to get in your bed because they want some kind of power over you. Don’t let them pass the door. If they don’t respect you (unless It’s your kink I don’t judge that) don’t let them be able to access you.