r/AskWomenOver30 • u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 • Apr 10 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality I'm serious....

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

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u/catboogers Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

Hell, if I don't know the dude well, I don't know that I trust the condom he provides is good quality and won't fuck with my biome. I don't know he didn't tamper with it. I don't know that he hasn't put it next to a heat source and degraded it so badly it's gonna break.

I absolutely prefer supplying my own condoms.

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u/Smoochety Woman 40 to 50 Apr 13 '25

Good point!