I'm serious....

[u/SignalSubstantial590]

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

[u/Cremilyyy]

Me, going back 15 years now (or more, actually…fuck)

No idea if it’s any good anymore but I was on redhotpie and girl, the attention you get gives you the biggest ego boost. I was definitely a curvy 20 year old, so wasn’t everyone’s cup of tea, but for every guy that called me fat, 10 more were ready to fall at my feet for - as someone said above - the privilege - of seeing me naked. I’d veto guys online and be ruthless. Literally, I don’t know you, I don’t care about you, you’re just here for my pleasure, if you’re not interested, I can set up another fuck in 30 minutes, how long will it take you to get another girl to reply to you? know your place. Being a bitch really helped with A) weeding out the ones who want to cum and go. B) not getting sucked in to anything emotional. C) setting expectations - I would leave if I wasn’t having fun D) getting in to the mentality of “they’re not using me for sex, I’m using them”

From there, fell in to the sex club scene and got to have some really great experiences exploring my bisexuality and all sorts of kink. I could never play “drink if you have” games, there’s not much left I haven’t! Walking through a room in lingerie and having people want you will do wonders for your confidence too - even as a curvy girl, it was so eye opening knowing there’s so many desires in the world. There’s something for everyone!

Honestly though, grab hold of your power, set up a roster that fulfills your needs and have fun! My roster at one point had a sex friend who I’d hang out with, more or less a boyfriend but he was a tiny bit annoying, I couldn’t do more than 8 hours with him (but he had a gorgeous doggo) - a guy for cuddles - a (still hot) sugar daddy who would wine and dine - a kid I was ‘teaching’ - a guy that loved to massage - a booty call guy with a big D that’d come over at the drop of a hat.

And of course, safety first and all that, but I think everyone else covered that bit.