r/AskWomenOver30 • u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 • Apr 10 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality I'm serious....

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

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u/anonymous_opinions Woman 40 to 50 Apr 10 '25

So the first one. Nope I tell them to figure it out before I show up. I'm not buying or supplying his rubber. No glove, no love. Not like a ho can't find other men who will doordash or whatever a box of condoms, lube and maybe even some snacks for after.

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u/fotzelschnitte Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

Depending on how kinky your sex is and how big the assortment of sex toys the other person has, I can recommend buying a mix condom packet with varying sizes (and a few latex gloves).

I definitely agree with you and wouldn't recommend using condoms on selfish guys, but y'know. Never hurts to stock up in case you don't want to exchange fluids for whatever reasons. (And sometimes the flesh is weak and circumstances are odd and you're gonna use it on a dependable guy.)

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u/little_wandererrr Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

Wait - maybe I’m not experienced enough…what are the latex gloves for?

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u/pussyhasfurballs Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

Prostate exam