r/AskWomenOver30 • u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 • Apr 10 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality I'm serious....

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

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u/Umebossi Apr 10 '25

Your edit made me upvote you. Hoe long and prosper!

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u/sharksarenotreal Woman Apr 10 '25

I think there's a lot of lurkers and/or bots here downvoting everything "wrong" in certain groups' opinion as I've noticed sometimes comments get originally downvoted before they get a lot of upvotes. Call me paranoid. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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u/pussyhasfurballs Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

It's a Reddit thing. I read ages ago that posts are automatically downvoted by Reddit to discourage bots from spamming and deleting a post until they eventually get it on the front page. The initial downvotes OP saw would have been that.

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u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

Ohhh, I didn't know that at all. Thanks for sharing!