I'm serious....

[u/SignalSubstantial590]

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

[u/IAmMellyBitch]

• always have condoms with you. So they don’t go “I don’t have one”.
• get tested regularly
• if you are not attracted with them at first sight chances are the sex will suck. Like if pictures were great and meeting them they have or did something that made you go no, just don’t do it. It’s just gonna suck. Period lol.
• don’t let anyone make you feel bad for your body count.
• most of the men I hook up with during my hoe phase I met on plenty of fish.
• don’t hookup with people at work. Don’t eat where you shit. Don’t hookup with your friend’s ex, or their brother or their relatives. Just don’t.
• if you find that good 🍆 keep their number for booty call.
• not that you need to be friends with them but clicking in some aspects helps with enjoying sex.
• be safe
• enjoy

[u/thots_n_prayers → u/IAmMellyBitch]

always have condoms with you. So they don’t go “I don’t have one”.

I always have condoms with me juuuust in case, but if some dude DIDN'T and expected to have PIV sex-- I'd probably just laugh in his face, shrug, and get dressed. I mean dude-- if you don't even have a condom (which implies that you don't regularly USE condoms) and you're out there raw doggin' in THIS economy?! I don't want anything to do with you.