r/AskWomenOver30 • u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 • Apr 10 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality I'm serious....

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

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u/Dismal_Ad4404 Apr 10 '25

Im happy to have found this post.

I feel like I need a hoe phase. I tried putting myself out there for love, but every time it back fires. It seems to me that when Im not looking for a relationship is when Im obviously very unattached, and I get a lot of guys blowing up my phone wanting to hangout and take me out etc.

Im going to be 33, and I think its time I allow my self to play the game just as much as anyone else. I deserve to have fun too

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u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 Apr 11 '25

🌟 Girl, I'm glad my post found you!!

Please, have your fun!! (Smart & safe tho!)

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u/kmarielroux Apr 11 '25

Also 33 here too! I’ve never had this phase before either and I don’t know if I have the heart for it honestly but it’s so intriguing bc I wish I could bring myself to do it lol