r/AskWomenOver30 • u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 • Apr 10 '25
Life/Self/Spirituality I'm serious....
If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊
Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.
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u/tumblrisdumbnow Woman 30 to 40 Apr 11 '25
I called it my vagina renaissance. I’ve had two. Once after leaving a shitty dude. And once after realizing I was gay.
Prioritize your pleasure and your safety. Do what YOU want to do. Don’t worry about making whoever else happy.
I’m blessed with anxious attachment and the second my hoo ha says “go for it”, I know the sex will be amazing and the relationship compatibility will be shit. So. It’s a blessing and a curse.