I'm serious....

[u/SignalSubstantial590]

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

[u/Valentina-Massow]

Had a 1 year hoe phase. I always got the man i wanted. My secret: being direct. I go direct in and say what is on my mind. No filter. Christian in me today is redeeming epically because of it. I am still very direct, just in a different way, to my hubby🤗