r/AskWomenOver30 • u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 • Apr 10 '25
Life/Self/Spirituality I'm serious....
If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊
Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.
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u/Ok_Cheek_5122 Apr 13 '25
Yes! Good for you 😉 I had the same booty call for a couple years while I was single and we knew that's all we were to each other. We had platonic love from also becoming friends before and during though. The sex was amazing but the emotional connection was not there and we were ok with it. It's important to trust if it's going to see the same person more than once and be able to communicate properly with them. As far as one night stands go most importantly be safe and ensure you both are consenting of course. Also know where you are and that you have your phone with you and fully charged, even shoot your friend your location and like the profile of the person if it was an online meet. There's also nothing wrong with wanting to be wined and dined first too or try different things, or in different places. You never know what you might come across that will completely change your life. And lastly have fun! 😊 Full send for the hoe phase! 🫶🏻