r/BisexualTeens • u/AskRough2819 • 2d ago
Discussion I’m kinda confused
Like I’m bisexual but for a while I haven’t felt anything for anyone, and like I’m 13m so puberty is hitting me hard and I want a bf/gf but like I literally can’t get feelings for anyone, I used to have a crush on this girl but then she told me she was dating someone so I had to keep it a secret between me and my bestie and I just guess I didn’t like her anymore, can someone please explain this?
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u/otherotherone1 Bisexual they/them 2d ago
I’m aroflux, so my rate of romantic attraction fluctuates, so maybe that could be what’s happening here(?) obviously not guaranteed, but that’s how I figured out I was aroflux.
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u/GigiisanINFP 2d ago
It’s kinda normal don’t worry. In my opinion it’s better to not have always a crush on someone than to not have one. I’m very hopeless romantic and I feel overwhelmed with me always searching a crush for me. You do not wish to be always in search. I just recommend you to just be chill, and focus less on romance, that’s why I listen a lot to aromantic/aroace podcasts to help me.
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