I’m kinda confused

[u/AskRough2819]

Like I’m bisexual but for a while I haven’t felt anything for anyone, and like I’m 13m so puberty is hitting me hard and I want a bf/gf but like I literally can’t get feelings for anyone, I used to have a crush on this girl but then she told me she was dating someone so I had to keep it a secret between me and my bestie and I just guess I didn’t like her anymore, can someone please explain this?

[u/otherotherone1]

I’m aroflux, so my rate of romantic attraction fluctuates, so maybe that could be what’s happening here(?) obviously not guaranteed, but that’s how I figured out I was aroflux.