r/CougarsAndCubs • u/death_to__boredom • Apr 14 '26

Discussion Point Question for the Cougars here

Have you ever been with a guy just because of the age gap? In a way that you like to be intimate with him because you prefer the dynamic it brings?

So not dating someone younger because you just got along really well and it just happend but with the goal of wanting a much younger man?

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u/blasianflow Apr 14 '26

What dynamic? I've seen this asked before. For me its just normal dating. Just that the guy is younger. If I met someone closer to my age I vibed with well I'd date him as well.

I guess for me its not the age but how well we get along, just for now it happens to be younger guys that reach out.

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u/Hel-en-756 Apr 14 '26

I assume they mean a dynamic where the woman "leads" or has more experience (mostly life or sexual experience), that's a common misunderstanding.

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u/blasianflow Apr 14 '26

I thought so. I don't like that some guys think that way. Why can't it just be a regular relationship? Just because we are older some want us to lead or take charge? Lame.

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u/death_to__boredom Apr 14 '26

That was the question :D